What would you do?
By free_man
@free_man (7330)
United States
February 3, 2010 7:40pm CST
What would you do your son calls you tells you his wife is throwing knives at you? Then when your mother gets you out of jail for something your wife has caused do you blame your mother or your wife? My brother blames my mom for calling the police when he calls her and tells her that his wife is throwing knives at you. Him and his wife went to jail cause of marijuana pipes. So who is to blame when you go to jail for something that is in your home? She left him over a hundred thousand dollars and he wants it now! Not after she is dead and gone! Does she owe him a living cause he is her child? Is it her fault that he goes to jail? What do you think should she leave him anything or nothing at all?She wants to live off the interest of the money till she passes away! What would you do?
4 responses
@al2fenrir (64)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
I really find the situation you brought very confusing. I even had a hard time understanding it.
In my opinion, everybody should be responsible for his/her own actions. That "blaming your mistake to others" thing is a pathetic excuse. A form opf self-defense in my opinion that is selfish in nature.
If I am the mother, I would do everything to discipline my son, and correct what is wrong. I won't tolerate such manners. Well, of course, it's easy to say this, but hard to do in an actual situation. However, I believe that doing the lesser of all evils is the right thing to do.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
4 Feb 10
She owes him nothing. It sounds like a very selfish person to me. I really should say greedy. It is his own fault that they are in trouble. They should never have had those things where they could be seen, if they wanted them there.
If it was me and my son acted that way, I would be tempted to not leave him anything.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
4 Feb 10
Hi Thoroughrob. We tell him all the time he is just plain greedy. I wouldn't have left him but one dollar that is all that is required by law. This boy and his wife need help. I think it wouldn't do any harm if they were to be put in a mental hospital for a bit of time. He is always selfish and greed controls his life. His way of thinking is me me me me. He don't give a hoot that his mom is going into the hospital and may not come back out. He don't call her unless he wants something from her.
@etioewe (142)
• Mexico
4 Feb 10
hello i am really sorry to say this but please rephrase your discussion, i find it hard to say some thing and i think it might be a little confusing for poeple to understand, just try to make it more simple so you have poeple commenting on it . thanks very much you are special.
@kaylachan (58204)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Feb 10
I don't know what I would do. I wouldn't want to leave someone high and dry, but I would advise everyone envolved in that situation to seak professional help. That's not something to be messing around with. People with those problems need serious professional help because there is something wrong somewhere and you need a medater.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
4 Feb 10
Hi Kay. Mom is going in the hospital right now today. He calls her and ask her to loan him 300.00 to buy a truck, but when he borrows money he never pays it back. He is married to a real greedy woman that puts him up to this. We call her the devils sister. She starts all kinds of stuff and gets her husband (our brother) to carry out her will. You are so right he does need help some serious help. His name should have been give-me.
