Path of love

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There is a fixed path for love. Regardless of who you fall in love with, it goes the same path. So, no matter how many different people you start the relation with, the same end or route appears. It's like you start as a baby, then a toddler,a child, an adolecent, a young adult, a matured adult, an elderly and finally a memory(death). The path of love flows as below. 1) attraction -- Here's lots of sparks and tinkling feelings. We feel energetic and alive. 2) getting to know -- This is an unhappy stage as there are lots of quarrels and complaints, trying to accept things that you found out about the other's character. Some have gotten married when they reach this stage, some haven't. If they are not able to pass through this stage, the relation ends.( that's why there's a 7 years itch and it counts from stage 1 to 2 ) 3) bliss -- This is when you are able to accept the other as he/she is, with good and flaws in them. ( here's the start of the 2nd 7 years itch stretching to the next stage ) 4) bored and unrest -- Just as the name says it, we get bored to tears with routine of daily responsibilities and burden or living. That's why people look for or are open to any opportunities of another spark of love(attraction). People wish to feel alive again. This is another unhappy stage as people are not contented. Some relations end here and they start at stage 1 again with another. Some didn't end their relation but had started another stage 1( extra marital affairs ) 5) resigned or repent -- well, most people are no longer young when they come to stage 4, so not everyone has another opportunity at falling in "love" again. Those that do, often do not meet real love as they had when they were young but are targets of love cheaters for financial gains. 6) matured -- little reached this stage but it's another happy stage where they feel contented with each other and knows how to treat each other well. It goes till one dies. What says you, do you agree?