if you found out that your partnr was cheating, what would you do?

February 4, 2010 5:44am CST
i friend of mine found out some days ago that her husband was cheating on her and she does not know what to do. my question is that if you found out that your husband or wife was cheating on you, what would you do?
3 responses
@Thoroughrob (11748)
• United States
4 Feb 10
I would catch him at it, so he could not try and talk his way out of it. I would then make him leave.
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
true...that's the best thing to do, so no more excuses... ^^
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
first thing is for her to talk to him. it would be painful to listen him confess (trust me my ex bf cheated on me), then scream her lungs out. if you need to slap him with guilt go ahead, just pour it all out. then what? if she's to be blame why he did it, then maybe she needs to exert a little more effort to have their marriage wrk. they are married, if there's kids involved its more complicated. before doing anything, pray and seek support from friends and family.
• Canada
4 Feb 10
The trust and respect between my husband and I would be broken if something like that happened. I don't know if you can really repair your relationship. I would have said I'd just walk away but that was before we had a child together. Even if we weren't together we'd always have to be part of each other's lives. For the sake of my daughter I would work at keeping my relationship with him cordial.