Hard decission!!

I'll keep myself quiet but prepare to be a crying shoulder for my friend if thing turn bad in the future. Things might go wrong as what we see. We might just misunderstood, then it will be like we try to destroy their relationship. It's the circumstance of two people, so we should not get involve much. For a person like me, if something will break my heart then I would like to hear it from the one I love not the others to tell me.

hello icesmile, yes,this is hard decision to make. But,if you asked about my opinion,i will first talked with the one concern. The once i caught kissing someone. I will talk and give warnings that,if,i will saw him/her kissing again with other person...i will let the other one knows about it. In friendship...we should always consider that,to care will sometimes doesn't end with good results. As long we are doing what is right... Ok,granting that,it will cause any bad impression on you...or,the other friend will not believed on you...it's up to him/her. In our mind,heart and conscience ...we have nothing to fear of... Sometimes...our conscience will not give us peace for keeping bad...i would rather tell my friend about the truth,than battling with my conscience.

If I saw a friend of mine who I knew was in a committed relationship kissing or being otherwise intimately affectionate with someone who is not their committed partner, I would make sure that their partner knows about it, and I would remember exactly where I saw it, so as to get the facts straight. I would not feel right hiding this from the person.

For mw I am not in the position to tell my friend about the affair I will directly talk to the person involved & talk to him why he did it. Ofcourse I will advise him to talk to my friend if he is not happy with my friend & have separate lives because I know exactly how it feels to be cheated. But never will I tell my friend about the affair I don't want her to feel very bad.

I will tell to my best friend, she have to know that because it's very important to know if his husband really love her or not, if it was me, i want that my friend tell me, i don't want to be blind on this sort of thing! But i will only tell to my friend what i saw, and i let them discut beetween them, i won't influence their decisions because it's their situation not mine.