What is the single most important positive thing you have?
By getbiswa2000
@getbiswa2000 (5545)
India
February 5, 2010 4:09am CST
Hello friends,
We never had a problem in finding people who can point out a thousand negative points about us. Everybody has a positive side that comes along with a darker side. If you find a negative thing, you will inevitably find a positive part too. There is no such thing in this world that is either entirely positive or entirely negative. It is a perfect balance that makes one neutral, apparently harmless if I may say so.
My personal view is that although there is no use denying the negative side, there is a emphasis that need to be given to our positive side. Its our positive features that helps us go on. No matter what we loose in our lives, we will always try not to let go of our positivity and hope.
What is the most important feature you have in your character that you would tag as positive and highly useful?
Take care
God bless you all
5 responses
@sushie93 (1355)
• France
5 Feb 10
I think it's my determination but i'm hesiting with my imagination...
I can pick both? ^^
I'm determinated and always search for a solution for a problem, for me one problem= 2 solutions xD.
And imagination (visualization) keep me alive and give me hope
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@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
6 Feb 10
Hello dear,
Imagination is a very crucial thing in self development. Extreme imagination can potentially make you less affected by your surroundings. Imagination is the real strength in human beings as long as it goes all the way positive. Determination itself is the byproduct of heavy dose of imagination and self analysis.
Thanks for the response
God bless you
@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
6 Feb 10
Hello,
I know what you mean. Yes, confidence is the thing that is built out of tremendous introspective thoughts and self motivation. But once you have it, it becomes the single most key force to control almost everything around you. Confidence also brings a very genuine sense of independence which is crucial in developing the mental framework that you carry with you for the rest of your life.
Thanks for sharing it with us
God bless you
@qijikibum (54)
• China
5 Feb 10
hi there!! what you've said above was kind of letting us find our own strong points. I may say my perseverance is worth meriting. haha ,anyway. Thanks for offering a chance to help myself think of my advantages.
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@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
5 Feb 10
Hi,
I have a point of view. Sometimes we get busy in pointing out our own flaws. In this we totally overlook our positive side. We have to replace the statement "I don't want to be this" by "I want to be just like that". That is what I call a positive attitude. I hope you would agree with me. Nothing can be achieved in life without perseverance. If you want to do something good in your life you must first develop it as an elementary step.
Thanks for such a wonderful response
God bless you
@prasunsam (356)
• India
5 Feb 10
i think i keep my calm in adverse situations thats my positive point.
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@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
5 Feb 10
Hello,
Thats what I call sangfroid. Its the ability to remain calm and collected in any situation. Sometimes people misjudge you and identify you as inert and unsociable. But the virtue you have will accompany you till the end. I would also like to say add that this nature comes from absolute wisdom. Even if you are still in the process you will develop this really cool feature.
Thanks for such a nice response
God bless you
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
5 Feb 10
Huh.
Vanity.
Yeah, some say it's bad, I say it's good. I love myself, and I don't feel like I have to change for anybody. I know my own flaws and I am completely fine with it, I still think I'm awesome. It gives self-confidence and just... makes me happier in life in general. I don't know, I consider it a good thing. Bah.
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@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
5 Feb 10
Hello,
Let me point out only the positive side of it. Self love is the initiation of a truly philanthropic perspective. How can someone who doesn't love himself actually love others? But along with vanity one will need a high dose of self analysis and realization. When a wise person loves himself, he actually ends up in doing something good for the entire human race. But when an ignorant person is into self love he often misjudges himself, draws wrong conclusion about things and gets more and more frustrated about his own life.
Thanks for sharing it with us.
Take care
