i am fed up of my boyfriend. what should i do?

Jamaica
February 5, 2010 2:34pm CST
i am really fed up with my boyfriend and his attitude towards curtain things. i just can not take it no more. i really want to tell him that it is over but i do not know how to go about doing so. i have given him many chances before and things do not really change. what do you suggest i should do?
4 responses
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
Well, if your really fed up with your boyfriend...then theres no use clinging to the relationship. I mean, you have given him a chance and all, right? So might as well take the next step.
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
Psychotic? wow..thats a pretty heavy term to use.
damalimcpherson
@damalimcpherson (251)
• Jamaica
5 Feb 10
i told him on many occasions that i am going to leave him and he told me that he knows where i live and he has found me and that i am the person who he wants to spend the rest of his life with so he is not letting me go that easily.
damalimcpherson
@damalimcpherson (251)
• Jamaica
5 Feb 10
he is a bit psychotic so it is really harder than it seems.
shan0822
@shan0822 (433)
• United States
5 Feb 10
I think you should tell him how you feel and end up with this relationship with him on face. You must hoenstly what your feeling, it's not fair to live like that , it will hurt your boyfriend and you both. They said short pain is better than long pain. So ask youself what you what and honest with your boyfriend, just tell him you want change.
damalimcpherson
@damalimcpherson (251)
• Jamaica
5 Feb 10
i have tired talking to him whether on the phone or in person about it and things do not seem as if they have changed.i really do not know what else to do.
shan0822
@shan0822 (433)
• United States
6 Feb 10
Maybe we just need to told him you are end now. If you had key of his apartment or something, just give back to him. And if he ask you out, just ingore that! You must strong!
saphrina
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Feb 10
You have to be straight and honest. That is the only way. He has to know exactly what prompted you to do this. So put your foot down, take him by the ear and sort this out, once and for all. Luck. TATA.
junrapmian
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
If your relationship with him brings more pain than pleasure, if your love is not enough to cover the pain he's giving you, better end the relationship. It is better to end it now than later. You might not be able to endure the pain and end up hurting each other. You have given him so many chances, he hasn't changed. You don't deserve him. You're not really meant for each other. Now, it's time for you to move on.