how do you really move on with your live when you have end a relationship?

Ive ended a relationship a few times and the best way to move on is to start a new relationship. Ive noticed that you get so taken by the new person, try to get to know them and all, that you forget the other one. Its been my way of getting over it. I also never go back to a past relationship. Once its over, its over for good with me. Best to move on, look forward and have fun in the process.

You cry a little, think a lot, assess your feelings, talk your heart out (preferably with a counselor or confidant or spiritual adviser), and then pray to God thanking Him for giving you experiences and a colorful life. Smile!

Its hard at first...but what I do, is I keep myself busy with other things. Cause once I don't have anything to do...it reminds me of my heartbreak. So its good to have yourself surronded with friends and families and loads of things to do. lol.

damalimcpherson, You find that it's hard to let go. Well, did you know that it is because you never did let go in the first place - even if you think you did? Let me just add to the saying where you always hear: "Time will heal." Then let me say that "Time" doesn't really heal wounds - what time does is to coerce you in resigning fate and get used to your situation. Recovery is by choice and quiet reflection, often spurred from personal enlightenment. Sometimes, I find it incredible when people realized that their other half wants out and they will find all sorts of ways and methods to retain them. Why do anyone wants to 'force' other person to be in a relationship? Would that actually change anything permanent and not relative by nature? Placing you as the 'me first' perspective will always work against you from moving on, that's because Love don't really give much damn about an individual alone. If the sum isn't two, then the entire model of love will corrupt, turning the equation into error. Therefore, I always could safely conclude that depression is nothing else other than one that is a self generated one. Let me quote you a likely scenario: here you are crying over spilled milk and there the other half is reveling, partying or having the time of their life. While you mopped around, holding onto nothingness and continue to be melancholy? Your choice.

For me, starting a new relationship is the only way I can move on! Actually, I just have two relationship in love(I mean boy girl's love). Even I was broken up with my first boyfriend, I still not over him, until I had a new relationship with my husband back that time. I start to really move on and forget the first one, although, I move on a little bit everyday before I start new relationship. But I think the new relationship made me finally over the old one!

i just tend not to really think about it,the more you think about it the more upset you get,so the answer for me is to be as cold hearted as possible and carry on as normal