what age do you think it is ok for your daughter to start making out with boys?

@rogerdjt (166)
United States
November 15, 2006 12:55pm CST
I don't allow it. Wife thinks I am a bit harsh.
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@EagleEyes (646)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I think around 16, or 17 I would let my daughter start dating.
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
She is almost 16, dating is fine, making out? No way!
• United States
15 Nov 06
Yes, I agree, but how old were you and your wife when you first started dating? Didn't you kiss?
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
My wife was 23 and I 25. We did not kiss for knowing each other after 2 weeks. We waited on other matters, and got married after 6 months. We have been married for almost 14 years.
@DanKannel (1063)
• Brazil
15 Nov 06
oh! man... ! i don´t think that before... putz...
@DanKannel (1063)
• Brazil
15 Nov 06
didn´t, didn´t, didn´t... shiit... now i need help.. hehe
@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
ok.. Best of Luck to you... Please stay away from my daughter...lol..
@DanKannel (1063)
• Brazil
17 Nov 06
i know that u talk about, man... i got a daughter too... . . .hey.. everybody... get out too.. my daughter is too young... and she ´ll be young for the rest of my life... (i know.. only in my life.. hehe)
@jray721 (1969)
• United States
15 Nov 06
i say age 30 is a goood ago to let your daughter start making out =)
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• United States
15 Nov 06
my dad used to say i could start dating when I got out of medical school or was 35 - whichever came first. I never went to medical school and I was married at 20. I think my mom won that arguement.
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Its never to late.
• Nigeria
15 Nov 06
I think it is not important
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
That is because it is not your child.
@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Yes, I see you are only 20. To you this is not a big deal.
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
15 Nov 06
30! LOL..i dont know..i think the boys will be afraid to touch my daughter because her daddy is pretty scary and protective! haha
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I am a sargeant at a prison. I am a big man, with lots of tattoos. I am active in martial arts. It did not work. Maybe you should have a back up plan.
• United States
16 Nov 06
That's funny b/c my fiance and I always joked about that - I'd have him meet the guy while I was in the kitchen with our daughter. He'd ask the guy "so where you going tonight with my baby girl" and if the boy said "the movies" my fiance would yell into the kitchen "honey, where's my shotgun cleaning kit?" and scare the kid. But kids are too tough - prob. wldn't work.
@birthlady (5613)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I did not allow it, I agree with you. Your wife is trying to be a friend instead of a parent. Urge your daughter to wait...how old is your daughter?
@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
agreed.
@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I just don't want to see her end up pregnant and miss an opportunity to go to college.
• United States
16 Nov 06
Not - Not harsh at all, you are resposible for your child, and it is your ultimate responsibility to teach and train your child to become a good wholesome citizen and making out with boys is a lot different from learning to interact with peers - BIG difference. Your training should be such that you trust your child enough to believe that will obey you if you have trained them well.
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Yes, good answer. She has never given me any reason not to trust. She is kind, good person, loving, and makes good grades. Yes, making out is a lot different than to befriend a person.
@cyby22 (1208)
• Romania
15 Nov 06
well,about 16 or 17 i think but im not sure!hard to say!
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
16 Nov 06
It will be easier to say once you have a teenager. Trust me.
@angelface23 (2497)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Probably like 16 but you know she's going to probably kiss a boy when she's like 13 when she's playing spin the bottle or something. Do they even still play that game?
@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
OMG... No more soda.. I am having another heart attack..lol.
@chukwudi (1100)
• Nigeria
15 Nov 06
i can only allow that after she finished her degree exams in the university
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
YES!!
• United States
15 Nov 06
My daughter was 16 when she had her first kiss. I was 13 when I had mine.
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Did you parents approve or disprove of this? BTW..thanks for commenting.
• United States
15 Nov 06
how o1d is your daughter i dont know that one is a toughy i dont have any kids but i know that im going to be very protective of my daughter
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
She will be 16 soon.
• United States
15 Nov 06
when she is 40.lol No serously when she is about 16. The more we try to stop it the more she will do it and it could be more than just makeing out.
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
No.. This will give me a heart attack.
@krizz420 (4387)
• Canada
15 Nov 06
When they move out then they can start making out!lol
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
She is not going to move out until she finishes college!! 8-) Then she can do what she wants.
15 Nov 06
I think that 15-16 is the good time to begin, it can be good for her to see how is the life !
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
See what I mean? He is 17.
@sweetdesign (5151)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Ok I do not allow "DATING" until 16 but "DATING" is no making out. I tell you this if a girl has been seeing the same boy for a year and says "he's the one" you got more to worry about than making out. You need to sit down with your daughter and talk about the facts of life. I guarentee you they have been more than holding hands and kissing...
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
OMG.. She is going to give this man a heart attack..
• United States
15 Nov 06
I don't even want to think about it. I have a 12 and 13 yr old daughter. I would really like the answer to be, when they are old enough to move out. My husband and I are pretty strict on them as far as things they do. I see so many little girls walking through the neighborhood by themselves acting so grown up and it scares me for what could happen to them. They will probably have their drivers license before they go on a date.
@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Thats a great idea.
• United States
15 Nov 06
When they are old enough to take care of any accidents.
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Thats right.
• United States
15 Nov 06
She should be able to make out when she can start dating, but you should talk to her and be completely honest with her about everything. Like how you feel, what you believe, and how you think she should behave herself. If you're honest with her she'll respect your opinion and will most likely agree with you and she won't make out until you two can agree on it.
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I doubt that, but thank you very much for the suggestion.
15 Nov 06
15 I mean come on they have to learn some where in life! I would say sit down with her and ask her is she sure her boyfriend is the right one! Then let her do the rest. But I think it's up to you what ever u feel comfortable with, then thats your decision. Greetings
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@rogerdjt (166)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Well, I did that. She says that "HE is the ONE"!!! For pete's sake, she is 15 going on 25. What do you know at 15?