would you rather...

Philippines
February 8, 2010 7:11am CST
would you rather find out your husband cheated you or he's homosexual?
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4 responses
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
I wouldn't want to choose any of these difficult situations. But if I have to, I'd rather choose to have a husband who cheated on me than knowing that he's homosexual. Well I have nothing personal against those who are homosexual. But I just couldn't imagine how to live with someone who loves a woman and a man at the same time. I think there's nobody to be blamed on this situation. But for a woman, it hurts to know that the person we chose to love, chooses someone else with same gender as him. If I have a husband who cheated on me, of course, it will also be very painful on my part. But at least our relationship can still have another chance for this can still be changed. He can still have the chance to change and make up for his mistakes.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
8 Feb 10
I'd just rather be like i am & not have a husband to have to make a choice like that.
@pipayst (140)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
...yeah I'd go with cheated too. Finding out your husband is gay means that neither you nor him could help it so there's nothing to vent out on and you'd feel like utter crap.
@denagary (88)
• United States
8 Feb 10
Wow, what a tough one. I think if I had to choose one, it would be that he cheated on me. At least then, maybe we can still work things out. If he is homosexual then it seems I have lost him altogether as a mate. I am not sure I can forgive a cheater but I can't in my right mind stay in a relationship with a homosexual. I could still be friends with my husband if he was a homosexual but it wouldn't be a marriage. This really sounds like a question that would depend on the situation but I hope to God that I never have to experience it.