Blind Hate that drives real Evil in this world. It has no place in religion.

United States
February 8, 2010 7:23am CST
When I was younger I had a lot of anger and hate in my life. I always had this notion of us and them and couldn't see the forest for the trees. It seems like we are always being pulled to dislike or hate someone based on one difference or another. We are told we should hate someone based on their nationality or race, everyone who has ever done me wrong has been from my own country. We are told we should hate someone because of their religious beliefs, again everyone who has done me wrong has said they are from my own beliefs. We are told to hate someone because they endanger our freedom but yet it's the politicians in my own country who are stripping me of my freedom. You can dislike and even hate something someone does but still love and respect them as a person, anyone who has been in a real relationship knows this is possible.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
9 Feb 10
Hi EvanHunter, Boy! Do we agree on this one! I've seen so much of it in my lifetime that I've been completely turned off, especially by religion. Today I'm totally convinced that we are all one and believe only in the divinity that is within each and everyone of us. A great many Christians have taken the teachings of Christ and made a mockery of them. Blessings.
• United States
9 Feb 10
Thank you for the reply. There are some Christians that have done their homework and are learning things the hard way, but the majority of humanity seems to not be able to learn the road that fear and hate lead down so I don't think its exclusively a religious concept or Christian.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
9 Feb 10
Hi again EvanHunter, You're right, it isn't exclusively religious or Christian. Blessings.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
8 Feb 10
I figure it this way. We should never hate anyone since what a person does today may change tomorrow. But we can hate the things they do. So we always hope that people will change for the better, whether they actually do or not. Though, we do not hate people, we can hate things. Religion is not a people, religion is a thing. If a religion promotes hurting people then we hate the religion but not the people in the religion. That's why Jesus said that we should even love our enemies. Not that we view someone as our enemy but that they view us as their enemy. I look forward to the day that there will be only one religion for all mankind. And that all people will be united as brothers that love each other.
• United States
9 Feb 10
Thank you for the reply. If you learn to love your enemies there is a chance of reconciling your differences but as long as you hate them there is no possible out come but violence, at least that's my opinion. It might not even be that you have to love them in the sense that you invite them over for dinner all the time but just in the way that you realize they are a human being also and that they don't deserve to be treated like garbage or have bombs dropped on them.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
10 Feb 10
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
10 Feb 10
I'm always amazed at much steam the same old, same old, blame game gets.. human race falls for it over and over.. and over..
• United States
10 Feb 10
Thanks for another reply. You are on a roll of replies! LOL. Whats the saying in Ecc 1:9 "there is nothing new under the sun". History and its stories remain the same we just fail to learn from our mistakes.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
8 Feb 10
I personally dont believe in "evil" or "sin" for that matter and I do NOT take the word "Hate" lightly by any means..to me it is a VERY powerful word that should be avoided as much as possible and NEVER just tossed out there (for the record i feel the same way aobu the word "Love" as well)....all that said...I have to comment on the last thing you said in your post You can dislike and even hate something someone does but still love and respect them as a person, anyone who has been in a real relationship knows this is possible There are times in the lives of some when loving and respecting someone who has done something horrible..something that causes you to hate them..IS NOT possible...for example..there is NO WAY I'm going to love or respect the ppl who abused me growing up for yrs and yrs..those same ppl who caused SO MUCH life long, life altering damage to me and who try to abuse me to this very day AND have taken their abuse on to my children as well...Not only am I not able to love and respect them, nor do I have any desire to..they DO NOT DESERVE IT...and thats the bottomline IMO....with them I WILL and DO use the word "Hate" to the fullest extent..or rather use to..over the past couple yrs its been more of a shift to pity, disgust and shame etc.... THAT said however....I think that BECAUSE ppl use the word "Hate" so lightly and casually, YES you are right that more often than not one CAN love and respect to some degree, the one they claim to hate.... As for "hate" being a part of religion..Well I'm not a religous person by any means (thoguh i am veyr spiritual) but none the less I dont thnk that it should be a part of any religious or spiritual path but sadly its very much a part of many...shame really
• United States
9 Feb 10
Thank you for the reply. I cant say what is right for you, that's your path, I only know that I came to realize all the hate I had carried around for the people who did me wrong effected not only me and my thinking process but it also effected those I loved. Still to this day I see my kids who are grown have picked up a lot of my bad habits and I know it came from my own fear and hate of things I was dealing with. You can waste a lot of energy by hating someone and it is also like a poison that spills over in your life. Anyone who feeds off of this and encourages it is not doing a human being any good be it physical, mental or spiritual.
@WATARIKENJI (1534)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
hi friend It just shows that this life is very much complicated. We were prohibited to this and that and some have no basis at all. Regards
• United States
9 Feb 10
Thanks for the reply.
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
9 Feb 10
Hate is a funny creature. People can disguise it in so many ways.People can be convinced to hate and not realize they are hating all disguised in the name of righteousness. Paint hate as goodness and many will use it in life and not just with religion.If you are hurting others, it's usually hate, however it is an act of great love when one goes through adversity so others will see and understand. This can cause drama but this is part of learning and can never be considered hate so long as you have love in your heart.
• United States
9 Feb 10
Thank you for the reply. Hate can be twisted out of a lot of things. Look at patriotism, if you love your country than you are told you must hate people who the government feels are a threat. As "hopeful" said above we must learn to differ from what people do and who they are. We have all done things at some time or another that someone has hated it doesn't mean we do them today or that we should have been exterminated for them. I would also say that fear and ignorance drives hate a lot easier. Its easier to hate a nameless faceless idea than it is if you know the people or a person.