how do you find yourself in terms of problems?

Philippines
February 9, 2010 12:22am CST
can you manage yourself when a problem come in you? what if it is a simple problem? what if it is a very hard-down to earth problem that could cause you down or cause you to surrender in life? do you find people to help you or do you solve it just with your self? i have friends just like this that they choose to solve their problems by their own self because they would have thought that when they ask a help to other people, they would put in their mind that they also giving problems to others because of their unsolved problems. haha. how about you?
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14 responses
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
I also do believe that if I will share my problems with my friends, I will add to their burdens, if they are really concerned with me, like the concerned is really true. When I have a problem, I don't share it to my parents or a family member. I rather share it to my bestfriend, because i don't want to add to their burden simply. There are many problems inside our home, I don't want to be the additional problem.If i can I solve it myself, I share it to my bestfriend to make me feel okay, to ask for advices, since me and my friend are just a text away. But in solving it and in process I do it alone. Or ask the help of other people. Mostly my problems is about at work and some personal problems. AT home when we have problems, I do everything to help them solve it. I am always there for my family. They don't know that sometimes I don't know how to solve my problems but in the face of my family I am brave. Hard down to earth problems is my problems about my family and money, simple problems is at work place and some people around me.
@cloud31 (5809)
9 Feb 10
Problems may come and go,no problem no challenge,,no pain no gain as it was said, I always encountered problems in my life, tiny, huge and different effect in my life, but i used to solve by asking God's leading way..I don't know but i seldom as a friend to problems because sometimes when problem involved friends sometimes cannot comprehend to help..Im sorry but i feel so much aware of friends about problems i'd rather asked somebody else to help with labor charge because once you pay you get nothing but done,unlike friends sometimes instead of putting you up they were putting you down.. I am not saying that i have a bad impression about friends just base in my experiences.SOME FRIENDS ARE TRUE BUT SOME MAYBE NOT! Happy Lotting! GOd bless!
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
9 Feb 10
I am havign a serious problem with leaders and how they do things but i have to remember that they are human and liable to make mistakes and that my perception too may very well be wrong. When I have problems I bounce them off my Pastor and close friends while seeking God's help and most of the times I will be told to pray ans seek God over it. It's not hard at all when God is in it because you know that He will make a way. He does not given any person more than you can bear but with it comes a way out or a solution. Remember every problem has a solution you just have to look for it and make the best choice. For me I dont think I want to continue in the position I am in now but it it is God's will for me to continue I will do so knowing that no matter He will make a way for me. I have this assurance. Other than that people who have problems need good counsellors as friends.
• United Kingdom
9 Feb 10
I think that this all depends on the problem that I'm facing! Generally I handle my problems myself and think that I'm ok with dealing with them. I don't allow my problems to fester but I tend to deal with them right away and then I can just forget about them. There have been times in the past when I have been totally overwhelmed and I've wanted to quit at times, not anymore though! Now, I turn to good self-help books and the like that offer real help and support and they are quite inspirational as well. Things are good right now and I hope that things remain that way. Andrew
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
I can consider myself a fighter to whatever problems I encounter I know that there is a reason why God allowed this problem to come to me. I may not know that soon the reason but surely I know I can handle it for God will not give me a problem beyond my capacity to handle it.
• India
9 Feb 10
whenever i get a problem i simply think myself and god... he tells me its just a bend and not the end.. so hopefully i try to solve the prob by myself... probably thinking y should i trouble others...
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
..hi.. I myself prefer to solve my problems alone.. but when I think I can't carry any longer, I talk to my friends and express what I feel.. sometimes, what a person needs is not an intelligent mind but a listening heart.. I don't usually ask help from my friends, I just express how I feel and if they have their opinions, I always respect them.. In times or problems in life, it is not really easy to stand up and fight.. it is always easy to say I can. but it is hard to do it.. For me, I focus on my family as my inspiration in solving those problems.. Thinking of my family makes me stronger and let me stay focus on my goal so that no matter how hard the situation is, I do my bets to manage and solve it..
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
i always believe that God never give us problem wthat we cannot handle or solve. although there people around you who can help you, its more appropriate to try to solve your problem on your own first. you never really know what the people around you has going through so try not to bother them with your problem. because most of the times the solution to your problem is just within you. so no matter how many problems, big or small, have faith in God. thats what i am doing, i believe in Him. He will always be there with me even the world goes up side down.
• India
9 Feb 10
Whenever i'm in problem i always remember god and always solve my problem. Not that i only take name of god when i'm in trouble but most of the time whenever i'm in trouble in usually remember god.
• India
9 Feb 10
whenever i'm in a problem., i'll try to solve / manage to the extent of my Calibre and after that.... I'll be COOL ( I mean IDLE ) if there is a Beginning there has to be an END ! i'll wait till END & if causes any harm to me - i'll take as a lesson Ofcos Humans.....
@janairah (67)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
yes i have a problem that almost kill me.this is when a girl traitor me.he make me drunk very very drunk and i don't know what's happened next.when i wake up were in the same room all naked and she hug me.after a month she said that she was pregnant.but i know that there's nothing happen there.she want me to merry her.then i go far then i day they call me and the girl said the truth.he met other guy before he met me.they make love and then she was pregnant.they made a solution and then they found me and make as a father of her child.but they tell us the truth then im saved hahahaha
• India
9 Feb 10
when i m geting any problem .i m faceing it from front. some time i need to take help of my calicks .with every problem i m trying to learn msny more thing.
• Singapore
9 Feb 10
I'm usually able to resolve most of the problems that I faced. If I really did face some problems that require the help of my friends, then I would definitely approach. After all, no man is an island.
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
i read bible and inspirational books or stories that can help me to be optimistic.