And it is better to arm ourselves to please others

stronger  - it is better to arm ourselves to please others .
Becoming stronger
@ypyanyan (956)
China
February 9, 2010 12:45am CST
before I was a naive girl and I am not mature . my thought is simple . I am too naive . I found that it is better to arm myself to please others . I deeply appreciate this point .
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@JamesKYTan (1607)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 10
Hello ypyanyan, In most cases, you please others, other will please you better. Can you remember what the great philosopher Confucius? Confucius said, " Do unto other what you want others do unto you."
@ypyanyan (956)
• China
23 Feb 10
yes ,you are right . i will remember these words forever . Do unto other what you want others do unto you . In most cases , I should do better .
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• Malaysia
26 Feb 10
Thank you for give me the best response. The great Chinese philosopher Confucius was born in around 552 BC. After 2500 years, his teachings still stand true. Another saying of his is: " Give a man a fish a day he will have fish for a day. But teach a man how to fish he will have fish everyday.
@dorannmwin (36656)
• United States
11 Feb 10
I think that it is very important for every person to have some sort of self defenses set up to help them to be a stronger person. If we are to try to go through our lives without having any sort of self defense we are able to be taken advantage of and we are easy to hurt. I think that you are taking the right approach to make sure that you are a stronger person. I hope that you are able to have the best of luck.
@ypyanyan (956)
• China
23 Feb 10
thank you yes ,it is very important for every person to have some sort of self defenses set up to help them to be a stronger person .
@Aaleexix (2291)
• India
9 Feb 10
Very good approach. And it is appreciable.
@ypyanyan (956)
• China
23 Feb 10
thank you . we should know this point early. Good day ,my friend .
@bulastika (5967)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
For once stop trying to please others in the end its you alone will going to get hurt. If you feel secure alone then you don't need to please them. They will come to please you instead. Why be a chaser if you can be the one they can chase?