can you date a disable person?????????
By vorovo
@vorovo (67)
Nigeria
February 9, 2010 8:12am CST
there was a day a classmate was walking and he saw a beautifull girl sitting down on a couch and he walked up to her and started the whole boy-girl discussion, that the girl should come and pay her a visit, fortunately the girl agreed,so the following day, she decided to pay him a visit, on getting there my classmate noticed that the girl is cripple, and the girl is telling my friend that she already love him,
what would you do???
if you finr yourself in my classmate shoe??
well we are waiting to hear from you
2 responses
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hi there friend.. Well if your friend can accept the condition of that girl if he's ready to take the challenges and consequences in having that girl then he should continue. If your friend can't accept the girl's condition then he should slowly depart from that girl. The girl might get terribly hurt if your friend will just leave her after discovering that she is handicap. Ask your friend if he loves the girl then if he loves the girl, he should accept the condition of that girl.
Let me share you a story of a guy who really admire his class mate but he was afraid to show or tell the girl that he loves her because his right leg is 3 inch shorter than his left leg beacuse of an accident. The girl is so pretty and many guys are courting her. The guy loses his hope with that girl. After their graduation in elementary they studied in different school.
After four years the guy discovered that the girl whom he love the most haven't been to any relationship from the time they parted. One day he saw the girl and the guy asked for her phone number. From that day they started to exchange messages and calls.
One day the girl asked the guy to visit her but the guy feels so afraid because he thought that the girl will already ask him to leave her alone. The guy went to the girl's house despite of his fear about what the girl would tell to him. While they were sitting on the bench the girl said "Is it okay if I say 'I love you'".
The guy was shocked of what the girl said. He asked "Are you sure with that?" the girl said "yes" then the guy said "look at my condition" the girl said "I love you the way you are". The guy was so happy and he said "I love you so much". They become couple from that day until now and that lame guy is "ME". If the my GF loves me despite of my condition maybe your friend can do it too with that girl. God bless!
@WiseReptiles (854)
• United States
9 Feb 10
Someone should not be judged on a handicap. If your friend was interested before they found out the person was handicapped then there was an attraction there in the first place. To now change your mind just because this person is handicapped is wrong and they should go out with this person. Don't hurt someones feelings because you found out they were handicapped. Take them out or whatever you were planning to do and not lead the person on.
