Till Death do us part - even after cheating??

Perhaps, there are many men believe in that what you called "grass is greener"...I don't know what you about that but I don't like people cheating their partner. People should be live with God's word to protect the sanctity of marrieds and no cheating be involved in all the cases of their lives...

I completely agree. Cheating should not even enter one's mind when married. It's not like you say to yourself; I don't love food anymore so I'm gonna stop eating. You'll eventually die... but, people really don't think that all their cheating will kill love - and harm the person! It does. Somehow, people think the grass is greener elsewhere maybe. Well, yeah; if you don't water it and nurture it... the neighbors grass will always look better.

That's awesome... That's what I mean... fight for what you SAID you wanted... I do!! You do what?? Leave first chance you get?? LOL. I hope you guys are still together. I think our society has almost lost that whole picture of marital bliss. Kids growing up today don't even see that anymore...example: If they have grandparents (at all) - are they married?? What message are we sending?? Where is american culture going??

No Stake... just potatoes!! Interesting response to all - I love it!! Thanks. To name 10 couple is a self-pat on the back. LOL!! Hopefully, the relationships around you are healthy b/c so many are not. Now, I don't want to sound like a pessimist (while I'm playing devil's advocate) - but as i mentioned in the response above yours == Where is american culture going? Our kids don't even know what marriage is supposed to look like - if there is a look. hahaha. I think I did hear briefly about Tiger's wife picking him up. That's good... it's a start........BUT IS SHE FIGHT FOR OR AGAINST?? is the heart of the question. To pick him up for the child's b-day can (play D.A.) sound misleading. Lots of people do things to keep up appearances - but, that doesn't equate to love. I bet she took that $5 million he gave initially - and I bet she kept the house she was buying in another country... (play D.A.) pobably trying to plan her escape long before this happened. I think women think men are not worth any "real" sacrifice - or we're somehow not fully invested; what do you think?? Uhmm, maybe I'll post that question. Thanks SkySuccess. Later

So here's a fact: people decide how 'true' their love is by basing on their own construction of judgment. It is like the postmodernist perspective of reality (that we construct our own reality) - there is no uni-vocal love that binds the superficial concept of 'true love' we gathered from the media - just much variation of the same concept, in which unfortunately is a belief that is susceptible to exploitation or obsessively held by the blinded soul/s. The concept of true love is a classic deception. Love is 'true' by our making; it is not given true as our prerogative. Take care.

Yep. I think we pretty successful (unconsciously??) aim at beating each other up. The concept of love is very opaque... but, my hope is - in one's heart, you feel and find 'something' about anybody that you can really like unto love. The "unto love" pertion can be like - that squirting gum we used to chew. You kinda know it's gonna happen... but in what flavor-kinda-mindset. We do construct our own reality - I believe that!! .... but, kinda like I was syaing above, here comes joe blow with the neighborhood bulldozer; we just don't know if he's gonna use it for good or for evil. That's conscious... if not pre-meditated. If you love yourself first... it has to color everything around you. Love is true by our making... voila!!