NO Date this Valentine Season
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
Philippines
February 10, 2010 1:20am CST
Hello Lotters,
Sorry to say but now Officially, 
I've become a Hope-Less Romantic and this coming valentines day aren't that for me. although i have dated a co-mylotter last year and it's not even valentines day but that was it and it didn't repeat since her job made her busy by surprise.
but that's alright, I've always spent time with my cats, the only thing i get to spend on is their food. but some how i get jealous of them too because they have the time of their lives together every single day
Don't even bother asking why? and encourage me, i feel that i wanna be alone this February, it's not in my mood
to spend time dating.
I've become a Hope-Less Romantic and this coming valentines day aren't that for me. although i have dated a co-mylotter last year and it's not even valentines day but that was it and it didn't repeat since her job made her busy by surprise.
but that's alright, I've always spent time with my cats, the only thing i get to spend on is their food. but some how i get jealous of them too because they have the time of their lives together every single day
Don't even bother asking why? and encourage me, i feel that i wanna be alone this February, it's not in my mood to spend time dating.9 people like this
27 responses
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
10 Feb 10
Hi LK, I thought I might invite you to a closed-door gathering for people who'd like to join the Firing Squad this Valentines.
There are still many untaken slots!
There are still many untaken slots!1 person likes this
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
10 Feb 10
You naughty you!
I know what's running on your mind. But that's not it. Sorry,
It means 'exclusive for members' only.
I know what's running on your mind. But that's not it. Sorry,
It means 'exclusive for members' only.1 person likes this
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello there,
yeah, right. 
closed door gathering? i was thinking of something else about the close door thingy
. well, have a great day.
there,
yeah, right. closed door gathering? i was thinking of something else about the close door thingy. well, have a great day.2 people like this
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 10
Festive season (Valentine season) give us opportunity to greet one another with sincerity and love flowing from our hearts. Let us refuse to see anyone's defects including ours. Rather let us only look at the talents and gifts of others. Take this opportunity to forgive everyone who has hurt you in one way or another. Forgiveness frees the self and others from the prison of the past. 
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Thanks for the BR.@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello zandi458,
i guess you're right. why bother having a date when i can just spend time with my family. i bet a date with the entire family is fun than just with one person, although not that romantic but it's way too cool. you know those words kinda remind me of holy week, sorry. but you're right this is the time of love and shouldn't whine about selfish defects. have a great day and thank you.
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
I got fed up of valentines issue, do we need to have a special someone during valentines?. We can spend it when anyone we want. Sorry for being a loser, I don't have a date too, I plan to spend it at home, sleeping beauty. I don't care e-e-e-e-e if they are dating, I will sleep. Of course I will be watching chick flicks movies with home made popcorns and RC Cola. I don't care e-e-e-e-e. I want to say Hello to your cats, meow!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello Grecy,
Yeah, too expensive for me to have a date. i am simply or probably just happy at home, i am sure lovalozza is at it again, but i don't know if it's still located in malate or something. yeah, i don't care too if they're dating. i would probably buy lumpia gulay again in the goto cart it's only eight pesos. i miss rc cola, you should have tried the virgin cola i heard it's cool.
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Haven't seen virgin cola in my entire life. I will check on it later
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@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
hi there letranknight! there's nothing wrong if you don't have a date on valentines day ., for me it is a regular day now. i also got broke up with my long time bf recently and now will no longer celebrate it ., i maybe a bit jealous with someone who has a date this v day but i wouldn't care. i would rather spend time with my family, relatives and close friends ., in fact we are trying to make a vacation this weekend in la union ., and for sure this will gonna be a great weekend., let's not ruin our day because of our past ., but be happy because there is always reason behind that failure ., and i am sure that there is something instore for us in the future ., :)
have a great day ahead!
advance happy heart days and kung hei fat choi! :D
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Hello myliez,
Oh, my i am sorry to hear that, it must have been hard at first, probably valentines is a bad idea for break ups. wel, if i don't have a date this coming valentines i might as well spend it with my family too. i guess your right, we shouldn't let it bother the things that has happened already since we can never change it back. you're right something in store for us in the right time. thank you for the greeting. 
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hi friend, it's not too late yet...you can date with good friends as well...group date...Me, go out with my son and daughter who have no boyfriend and girlfriend yet, we dine out together. I do visit my best friends before the Valentine's Day, eat together and a little talk. That makes my Valentine's day great.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello Bing,
I haven't seen my friends for a long time. the last time there was a plan but it was scheduled on the evening and i didn't want to hang out in the evening. i guess it's gonna be another family gathering this coming hearts day. am sure a lot will pissed if they don't have date this coming valentines day. have a nice day.
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@tom_soarhigh (42)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
It is a great opportunity to enjoy this valentines season with your friends or your families for they are really our loved ones-the one one who had truly love us and gave a part of their life as we grow old. So this Valentines season, Smile, be happy, and celebrate it with your family. You can give them surprise cards or prepare a surprise party.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello tom,
that's good to know, that valentines isn't always go with your partner but also with your families and friends. surprise cards? never thought of that maybe i should think about getting one to give it to my mom this valentines day. thanks a lot and have a great day.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Hi LetranKnight!^^
You dated a co-myLotter?? How did you meet?^^ Just curious. 
Don't be so gloomy. You're not the only one without a date tomorrow! You got me on your side. I don't have a date tomorrow too. But I don't let it bother me because Valentine's Day is just a day. It's just romanticized by businessmen so they can profit from people. ^^
But it would really be fun if we have a date tomorrow and go with the flow and the merriness of spending money and be lovey-dovey with someone special.
Don't be so gloomy. You're not the only one without a date tomorrow! You got me on your side. I don't have a date tomorrow too. But I don't let it bother me because Valentine's Day is just a day. It's just romanticized by businessmen so they can profit from people. ^^
But it would really be fun if we have a date tomorrow and go with the flow and the merriness of spending money and be lovey-dovey with someone special. 
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
14 Feb 10
well, I have known him for almost six years long before he referred me to mylot. he's been a good friend so that time that he was lonely i decided to have a date with him. wasn't that much fun and to think he had to play arcade games for one hour with him was his ideal fun. he is fun to be with, SLACKER!
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
You dated a co-myLotter??
Cool! ...wait, as in a date date or you two just decided to meet up for the first time..?
Well, anyway, February 14 isnt only Valentines Day you know. It's also "Single Awareness Day".LOL If you're single be happy about it, rather than sulk and think too much about the couples having their moments. You can always have your single moments too. As they say, "Stay single. Continue flirting."
Cool! ...wait, as in a date date or you two just decided to meet up for the first time..?
Well, anyway, February 14 isnt only Valentines Day you know. It's also "Single Awareness Day".LOL If you're single be happy about it, rather than sulk and think too much about the couples having their moments. You can always have your single moments too. As they say, "Stay single. Continue flirting."
LOL Im kinda waiting for something like that to happen on myLot, but the long term kind.
Well, you may be right in responding to the call of that "heartbeat" but all things in time.@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
hello bjcyrix,
Yes, I did last year. i just didn't tell any one immediately. besides who cares by the way? i have no idea that it's actually Single Awareness day, i guess it's not bad at all. I am happy with talking to a lot of mylotters here. i gues it's nice to be single in a long run but some day i may need to have some one in life when i feel the heart beat.have a great day.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello neildc,
Duh! of course, it's darn expensive. well, that's exactly what am planning to do here. yeah, i guess you're right about that neildc, i've been gone a month and i couldn't afford totear myself away from this site again. it's nice to have friends in mylot so that i wouldn't be a real pooper in the special events like this coming 14th. have a nice day.
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@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Really? You have dated a mylotter before? So you met her just here? Or you know her before and interacted with her here unknowingly...??? Well this valentines, I don't have a date... because my husband is working outside our country. I would just spend my valentines chatting with him online.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Hello Lovelyn_medrano,
Yes, we even spent the night . we've known each othe for quite a long time. i have visited her house when the admin suspended my first account because she has internet there. but of course, i needed some one as comfort. she's a bit busy now because of her work, she rarely do mylot and not even respond to my topics XD. have a great day.
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Yes, we even spent the night . we've known each othe for quite a long time. i have visited her house when the admin suspended my first account because she has internet there. but of course, i needed some one as comfort. she's a bit busy now because of her work, she rarely do mylot and not even respond to my topics XD. have a great day.@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
So was it whole night? as in over night??? So what did you do to her house the whole night?
Well yeah, she may be that busy... for she don't even do mylot anymore... I hooe you would have time together again. Why not pay a quick visit her at home or at the office perhaps. If you like her in anyways, why not make a move, LetranKnight25.
Well yeah, she may be that busy... for she don't even do mylot anymore... I hooe you would have time together again. Why not pay a quick visit her at home or at the office perhaps. If you like her in anyways, why not make a move, LetranKnight25. 
@maydayzjy (35)
• China
10 Feb 10
haha~ It doesn't matter without a her but Valentine day is a lucky day you must with your families together. and cat is a good lover^_^
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello maydazy,
Well, there's nothing much to do this valentines and for what's worse, i couldn't get my payout this month for sure. cats are really nice and cuddly to play with. i just plaed with them again today and as usual it was cool since there's two of them. have a great day to you.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hello neha,
so you get to hang out on valentines day, huh? which one of your friends would give you flowers then? XD nice of you to share something with us.have a nice day to you.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
11 Feb 10
One year, I thought, "Valintine's Day and I'm not dating anyone." Do you know that both my Mom and my ex-boyfriend sent me cards. My Mom never sent V-day cards to me. Plus the ex-boyfriend, what a surprise. Very strange, but true.
If you want to be alone, fine. But I put on dance music and dance until I feel better when I'm blue. Playing with your cats sounds like fun and a good way to spend the day, too. Yes, I think cats have a better deal. They don't have crazy holidays to worry about. They just bask in being loved.
Take care
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
hello writersedge,
they must be kind enough to send you cards, i bet they missed you as well if you only noticed about they're cards lately. it's not that i just not in teh mood for dating. besides it will crowded on restaurants or parks. take care as well and have a great day. 
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Well, love can always wait. If you are not in the mood for love this these days then you always have the freedom to enjoy that feeling. Anyway being single does not necessarily make anyone miserable. If you don't have a date this Valentine then just spend the day ordinarily and don't ever mind the occasion. That will not make you any less of a man anyway. So I will not greet you Happy Valentines Day for that will not apply to you. I'd just say "Enjoy every day of your life even when alone". Anyway anyone can be alone but not blue. Is it not?
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Hello salonga,
You're right and not to mention that i really don't have that feeling yet of falling in love, but i did experience what it feels like to be.as of now i don't really have that feeling right as this moment. well, am a bit lonely but never alone, thanks for the greeting and have a great day to you.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
10 Feb 10
LOL. I sometimes make excuses about my own life..That I'm too busy and committed to work and school to ever be committed in a relationship..But the truth, deep down, is that I would LOVE one! I haven't been in a relationship for over a year, and when you're 19 years old and in the prime of your youth - this is LIGHT years! Hopefully the right guy will come around sooner or later..But for now, it looks like we are BOTH going to be hopelessly single on v-day. Oh well, better luck next year, right?!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Hello maezee,
Well, you are indeed young and what you do is very very productive. valentines is also for friends and family i believe you are still lucky that you have a lot going on for you, that's why it's a lot better having a relationship in a young adult age. just don't go over 30, at least at your 20's youmight get to pick some one XD.
@multicoloured (86)
• China
10 Feb 10
me too, i have no date in the past 28 years, you are more lucky than me, sometimes i felt so lonely and sat in front of computer all day long, another day has gone, nothing has changed, what is the different is that my age increased one year again
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Hello multi-colored,
wow, that's a very very long time. maybe you shoud hang out with some one or at least try to do small talks for quite some time. what's happening to you is also happening to me.maybe we can hang out together with the other lonely single people out there, then make a clubXD. have a great day.
@CHumphreys (34)
• United States
10 Feb 10
99% of the time (before I was married and had children) I was always single on Valentines Day. Some years, I would feel sorry for myself, other times, I would go out with friends, and sometimes, I would sit at home and be perfectly content. Now that I do have a "date", sometimes I miss not having any obligations and just being able to have some alone time.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Hello chumphreys,
well, that's good to know that you're finally had a date which is your wife. it's nice to have some one in life rather than being alone and single all the time. when we take it to the next level we shouldn't be missing out the times that we were single but i guess to you and others can't help it.
@macomiller (1)
• Nigeria
10 Feb 10
thats a serious situation there for you,but for me am gonna celebrate val to the fullest
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
hello macomiller,
welcome to mylot my friend.not really am not that serious with this problem but i'd rather be alone now a days. have a great day to you.
