is it ok for girls to make the first move?

Philippines
February 11, 2010 2:31am CST
why? or why not? and for guys, is it a turn off a turn on
5 responses
@obe212003 (2301)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
In today's scenario, most girls are more into making the first move especially if she really likes the guy. If it was during my younger years, this would have been taboo, but if it does happen that time, it would be flattering and i would be humbled by such move, but then again i might be turned off...
@p3ks626 (6548)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
I think its okay for girls to make the first move but not to the extend of really telling the guy that you like him and all that. If you like somebody, you can make the first move by making yourself look prettier. The guys has to know that you exist and with that, you are already making the move. =D
@tatiana07 (498)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
hi alen! making the first move is alright with me. if i'm hit with the word "love" and i know within myself that he's really the one for me, i'll make the first move. why not?right? we are given equal chances to choose the one that we will love.. as for the opinion of some guys i know, it's really a turn on. it's the EGO talking.hmmm happy mylotting!
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
In most cases the man is the one always first. But the point of the girl being first is that, when the man have a disability or illness and cannot make a move with the girl and the girl volunteers to be the first. It is like being nursed from a half a dozen wounds. It is like heaven to the man. Only that men do not require flowers or chocolates of course but just simple true love of the girl.
• United States
11 Feb 10
I guess it could all depend on what the guy thinks about it, but I believe that it's perfectly fine for the girl to make the first move. I don't see anything wrong with it and, to me, it's some what of a turn on.