are you an escapist

@ksmita (513)
India
February 11, 2010 10:56pm CST
i find it really hard to face the reality..when ever some difficult situation come i run away from it..lock myself in room,, wait for the things to get better by itself..i wish i can stand tall and face them but i fail all the time..i hate to be escapist!!
7 responses
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
I believe you can face difficult situation ksmita. Yes, maybe now you can't but sooner you will. Everyone of us has that courage to face everything even the most difficult problems. Start facing little difficulties, you have to learn it. May I ask you a question? What is your goal in life?
@ksmita (513)
• India
12 Feb 10
hi..iam not a ambitious person..i think scare of facing difficulties refrain me from dreaming big.. but i just want to live a happy life with confidence
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
hello ksmita actually you don't have to dream big. you can start with a simple goal. try to face your fears little by little. I know you can do it, everybody can.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
12 Feb 10
I think many people are escapists to a degree. It's far easier to ignore problems or even run away from them, than it is to face them - or so it seems. The truth is that when we don't face them, they just keep bothering us. For myself, I sometimes try to escape for awhile, then realize that the only way I'm going to get rid of the problem is to face it and deal with it. I hope you realize that, too.
@ksmita (513)
• India
12 Feb 10
thanx peavey ..i wll try to deal with problems but it seems so impossible..
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
12 Feb 10
I don't think this describes me now. I used to be this way, but I have found that it is usually a lot easier to deal with a problem when it first arises than it is to wait or put it off...
• India
12 Feb 10
Hello ksmita, Not me, I am not an escapist. U know my husband is like that. Whenever there is a difficult situation or a crisis of any sort, he is the one to run and hide himself and then it is left to me to stay calm and face the situation. Sometimes I do wish that I had somebody, behind whom I could hide myself so that I do not have to face that particular situation.
@mylosha (286)
• India
12 Feb 10
it might be the problem of not only you also the problem of whole nation when we not escapist there were no any anti social moments in our earth and in our nation and nearby our house we even do not like to face a very simple problem or mischief that happen in front of our eyes. according to me i ask and face bravely such a moment.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
12 Feb 10
Well, there are times where I am like this. I think its not escaping the problem more than just getting myself ready to deal with it. Getting a clear head so I can tackle the problem head on. Reality will catch up eventually but I just need a few moments to take a breather. Than I'll be ready to face it but facing something overwhelmed is hardly ever a good idea.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
I was an escapist myself. When I feel that life is really pissing me of. I go out of town. Drink and smoke till my throat runs dry. After a few months I realize i couldn't stop anything from happening. The best way that I could do is think that I can do this and theirs gonna be more coming and I should be ready..