Wedding ring...Wear or not to Wear?

@cloud31 (5808)
February 12, 2010 10:32am CST
Wedding Ring? Every married couple has a wedding ring, its a binding materials between couples.And it has to be treasure because its the sign of love binded you and your partner.But....are you obliged to wear them all the time and not to be taken off on your finger? Why some couple don't wear their wedding ring after a couple of days of wedding. How about you guys are you wearing your wedding ring? now?or just a days after your wedding? share your opinion about this ..Thank you and Happy lotting!
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7 responses
• United States
6 Mar 10
its weird, my mum always wore her ring- even though i think it's too small/tight for her. My step-dad always makes some excuse as to why he isn't wearing it. I think that did annoy my mum tho she didn't say anything. Now they have a silent mutual agreement to wear it Sometimes. Lol idk
• United States
6 Mar 10
i respect my grandomther for still wearing her wedding ring, even tho my grandfather passed away years ago. I think it's because of the principle of keeping it on.
@cloud31 (5808)
6 Mar 10
hello frozen I don't know exactly why mot man doesn't like wearing their wedding ring.lol I guess its just what they think right.. Happy mylotting!
• United States
6 Mar 10
lol i kno right? idk how i would feel. like would you want your guy to wear it? i think i would want him to Want to
@nocturn98 (956)
• Venezuela
6 Mar 10
Yeah, you have to wear it all the time. I asked my wife why, she just gave me a threatening stare. She said I should only take it off when I wash the dishes and do the laundry. Women!
@cloud31 (5808)
6 Mar 10
lol hi there howdy friend? that's how woman threatening way,hahaha anyway why necessary for man to take their wedding ring off!! Happy myLOtting!
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
i wear mine all the time, i never take it off from my hands although my husband doesn't really require me to do it. same with him, he only take it off when he does the laundry,lol!he helps me doing it though. i just believe that it is a sign that i am already married and the importance of this band is as important as our marriage is.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
11 Mar 10
not every couple has wedding rings. They are a nice symbolic gesture, yes, but one's love, loyalty, and devotion are not defined by a ring or a paper that they sign. Their relationship is defined between the two of them and the two of them alone. When I marry, I don't want a wedding ring. I don't need a visual reminder of his love, and it's not really anyone else's business if I am married. My hands swell often, quite severely, and a ring could just end up stuck there or having to be removed. I see people all the time who outgrew their wedding rings and bands 5 sizes ago and wonder how bad it hurts to have it there, and how much it would suck if something bad happened and it got smashed. Although most jobs don't require a person to remove their wedding bands, in some occupations it could be hazardous to wear them. If someone defines their relationship primarily or solely in wearing a wedding ring, as I know some do... someone has issues in my opinion.
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
6 Mar 10
How about you guys are you wearing your wedding ring? No I am not wearing wedding ring right now. just a days after your wedding? I will be wearing wedding ring just a day after wedding. I think if the couple has the respect to the relation then all should the wedding ring after marriage. It is the symbol of love a faith and we all need to give proper respect for it.
@cloud31 (5808)
6 Mar 10
Aaleexix hi I don't have wedding right now, as Im not yet engaged or committed, but in my point of view.. We have to respect what's the wedding symbolizes to a marriage couple. I will wear my wedding always if times comes that i will have one! Happy myLotting!! Have a nice and blessed day!!
@annavi23 (6633)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
Hello mysweet! How are you? It's been too long since I last heard from you. Please leave me a private message if you have time okay. How about this topic? Oh, I guess you are wondering this time when you started this topic if you want to get married already huh? Am I right? Weeeeeee!^_^ I just hope whoever that guy is, he is very lucky to have you as his partner in life. Of course when you are married, it means you are willing to bind yourself to him. The person you love the most, and wearing the ring that binds you will always remind you as you are being loved and you are also loving. I am a type of person who doesn't like jewelry that much. It makes me feel uncomfortable having them, I just don't know why. If ever I get the chance to be married, I will wear my wedding ring, but I can't promise I can wear that every minute of my life. That's just a thought. Who knows, I may be of different point of views the next time I get married.
• United States
12 Feb 10
I wore my wedding band all of the time up until a couple of years ago when I had a serious car accident. When they took me to the hospital they took it off and placed it with my belongings and now I can not get it back on due to the fact that I crushed part of the knuckles on my left hand. I would like to go get it resized so that it fits comfortable and then I will go back to wearing it again. My hubby is the same way. He had to have hip surgery so when they had him take his off it will now not go back on either. Guess we should go look a new rings this year for our anniversay, since it is coming up pretty soon.