Fat People - would you date a fat person?

United States
November 15, 2006 2:30pm CST
People who judge another simply on looks alone may find themselves alone and lonely. A persons size shouldn't matter.
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8 responses
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I have dated heavier women. Doesn't matter to me what a person weighs - as long as she's healthy and carries herself well, weight doesn't matter. Beauty's about glowing skin, sparkling eyes, clean hair and confident carriage. Not about how many pounds someone may weigh. Besides, really skinny women always look and feel so fragile! I don't want to be with someone who feels like she'll break if I hug her too hard.
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• United States
29 Dec 06
Loved your response. It isn't the outer shell of the person that matters. It is what is inside that counts most.
@sunrisekn (1466)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I would. I am a chubby, so I would definetly date someone who was chubby. My husband however is fairly lean so we look like Jack Spratt and his wife. LOL My husband just said he's a bonafide chubby chaser! (only me, I hope!) :0)
• United States
29 Dec 06
Same for me and my hubby. You don't have to shake the sheets to find me.
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@sunrisekn (1466)
• United States
29 Dec 06
lol
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I don't judge based on looks. A person's size does not matter to me, what matters is their personality and who they are on the inside not what they look like on the outside.
• United States
29 Dec 06
Thank you for adding to the discussion. I know it is important for people to realize that people are people.
@lizabeth (666)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I don't think you should be judged by your size or looks. Its not what is on the outside but what is in the inside. People too often judge others without knowing them.
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• United States
29 Dec 06
It is a sad fact that many in today's society will judge too quickly based solely on appearances.
@MIO82001 (594)
• Romania
29 Dec 06
I AGREE...BUT IT IS SAD THAT IN OUR DAYS PEOPLE ARE JUDGED BY THE WAY THEY LOOK ...IT DOESN'T MATTER IF U ARE SMART,U HAVE A GOOD HART ,THE LOOKS IS IMPORTANT . I WOULD DATE A FAT PERSON ....
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• United States
29 Dec 06
I am delighted to see that many would date a person of size. Truly it is the personality of the person that is the most important factor.
• United States
29 Dec 06
I'm a little overweight, so I would be a hypocrit not to date someone fat. Plus, we must see past the fat to see who they really are.
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• United States
29 Dec 06
Well said Flutterby
@caramello (4377)
• Australia
29 Dec 06
Why not? There are some beautiful "big" people who would have nicer personalities than some who are not so big! Looks are not what makes a person, or it should not be, as what a person on the inside is what really counts!
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• United States
29 Dec 06
Thank you my dear! I have met so many beautiful people in my life. All of them vary in shape and size. If they are beautiful from within, they are beautiful people.
• United States
30 Dec 06
I agree with you. The expression is that beauty is skin deep. That is so true. The exterior will fade in time, but the beauty is deep inside and won't change. I married my hubby when he was fat, and he still is. But I would never trade him, he is so wonderful.