Is it ok for a woman to wear pants at a wedding?

@frtwome (239)
United States
February 13, 2010 9:03am CST
I will be going to my neice's wedding this coming fall. I haven't had to wear a dress in over fifteen years. I am very self consious and uncomfortable in a dress. Is it ok now a days to wear a nice pants outfit to a wedding? I will be a church wedding. I haven't talked with her about this yet, so I don't know how she will feel about. I know many years ago when my brother got married, he insisted that I wear a dress. And I did. I have always been kind of tom boyish and feel out of place in a dress. What is your opinion on this?
4 responses
@phoenix8606 (4942)
13 Feb 10
Hi! If you are not going to be the bride, then i don't see anything wrong in that, to wear pants on a wedding. Of course it will be better, if you wear some costume with the pants and not wearing jeans, like on some common occasion. With some costume you will look more respectful and nice, if you have to wear pants on a wedding
@frtwome (239)
• United States
13 Feb 10
Of course I would never wear jeans to her wedding, a very nice pant suit is what I was thinking. And there might even be other women there wearing pant suits also. As you can probably tell, I don't go to weddings very often, more than 15 years ago.
13 Feb 10
well, I also don't go to wedding that often, maybe once on 10 year but, yeah, I also think there will be many women wearing pants suits
13 Feb 10
by the way, enjoy the wedding and hope soon you will make one too, if you are still not married of course
• United States
13 Feb 10
I would say as long as what you are wearing is appropriate attire for such an event then go for it. No showing up in jeans KWIM? My hubby would love me to wear dresses but I hate wearing them & they do not compliment my shape at all.
@frtwome (239)
• United States
13 Feb 10
My husband would love it if I would wear a dress, but I just do not feel right in one. I envy women that do, because I think that dresses look very nice.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
You can wear a slacks to look more formal. Then you can pair it with an elegant blouse that suits the wedding theme.
• United States
13 Feb 10
A pants suit is appropriate for women any time a a pants suit is appropriate for men.