married but...

Philippines
February 13, 2010 10:57am CST
what would you do guys if your now married but you still love your ex and your still wishing and hoping that there could be another chance for the both of you.. will you leave him to be with your ex or just go with the flow hoping that someday your love for your ex would just fade away...
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3 responses
• Indonesia
13 Feb 10
If i decide to marry someone, consequently i have to forget my ex and try to love someone whom i'll marry. It's not fair for ur spouse if u still love someone else. If u can't forget ur ex and still love him/her, so don't marry another guy/gal.
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@cbjones (1147)
• United States
13 Feb 10
I hope to never put myself in a situation like like that. It would be horrible for all parties really. I wouldn't want my wife to feel as though our vows meant nothing. I wouldn't want my ex to feel like she was a home wrecker. I wouldn't want my face to feel the pain of brace knuckles, on the fists of my brother in law.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
what happened to the marriage? i think it is unfair for the partner to keep the love for an ex. if that is so, then s/he should have not get married in the first place. it is simply not fair to the other. or at least, s/he should file divorce or annulment so that s/he can be free to pursue the other. well, this is what i think.
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