do you get hurt when your friend says that he has not time to talk to you.

@1anurag1 (3578)
India
February 13, 2010 11:22am CST
In the world there is a thing which cant be given back to any body at any cost , that is the time. if some one gives his or her time to any body he or she could not get it back by paying any some of amount. but the thing every body has this precious thing.and when it is shared with some one relations born. but when it is not given to any relation they grows weak,. same thing is in friendship.if some one says to you that he does not have time for you and you have waited for him. then what are your feelings. share your views.
6 responses
@myl0t1 (346)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 10
Perhaps, the first time i feel disappointed. However, As friend we also have to respect their interest. Maybe their time when we talk something is not exactly and disturb their work. So Positive thinking is the best way.
@1anurag1 (3578)
• India
17 Feb 10
Thanks for the response. i think if some one is busy in work. no body feels bad or get hurt. but sometime moments come when a person try to show his importance over others and dont care about the feelings of others. i think that really hurts if the person is friend.
• United States
17 Feb 10
yes, it hurts when i need to talk to someone a my friend tells mt that they have no time for me. i always make time for my friends, even if i have to stop what im doing to listen to them.
@dorannmwin (36651)
• United States
16 Feb 10
My feelings aren't typically hurt when a friend tells me that they are busy and they don't have the time to talk to me because I also have times in my life that I don't have the time to adequately dedicate to one of my friends. However, when I feel like there is a specific friend that is constantly demanding my time and then I need someone to talk to and they don't have the time for me, then I will feel hurt by the situation.
@besthope44 (12135)
• India
14 Feb 10
Yes, at the first moment, it will be hurting. but when we make us not to be very sensitive or emotional, then we will give ourselves to put into our friends place and think why he would have told us. In same way, your express to your friend or let your feelings know to him. So that he will also put himself at your place and understand your true care. And friendship is not only respecting similarities, also the differences. Never mind,keep waiting for your friend,afterall he is our friend
@syankee525 (6293)
• United States
14 Feb 10
well if i called them through the week in the middle of the day i know they work and i dont, so i wont get to upset at them, because i did work i would have friends call me well i was working and told them i couldnt talk to them at that time but i know if something was serouis wrong with me and i needed my friends they would make time for me, just as i would do for them. so i would it depend on things that is going on at that moment and why i needed to talk to them
• Malaysia
14 Feb 10
i dont really because i dont have such friends ... i only get hurt when it is my husband, even with relatives i dont .. i have learned that from my own experience because none of them owe us anything to follow by our needs ..