What do you do when your broken hearted and its valentine's day? Ouch!

@joygracia (1326)
Philippines
February 14, 2010 5:48am CST
I just recently broken up with my bf for 2 years just last week. Pain is still fresh and its valentines day right now. I'm completely empty inside and its sick. I just let my day pass by and just let myself watch funny movies just to waste my time laughing instead of crying. Ever been like this? Its sick but no choice. Its destiny!
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@Hubfee (665)
• Thailand
18 Feb 10
I never experienced that. But I think it's really upset. However, be cheer up! time will heal the pain. There's so much for you to remember and experience. Let that memory fades. One of my friend also broke up with his gf on valentine's. He said it'll remind her of him on the day, every year.... The day that they got broke up, it seemed my friend was in pain badly and it's his idea to wait till valentine's, to be the one who breaks the relationship. However, time passed and he just smile and make fun about it. like "Oh! it's valentine's today, it's the day i broke up with someone" something like that.
@joygracia (1326)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
thank you so much.. At some point I'm kinda scared i end up having valentines as a reminiscing moment of my pain of broken hearts..
@Hatley (164229)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Feb 10
hi joygracia I am sorry for you but I will bet you will soon find a man who will love you for yourself and give you big romantic valentines on Valentines day and take you out for dinner. I am not broken hearted but just sad as I am elderly and although my son spent last night with me visiting here,today I am again alone with ninety other residents and feeling a tad lonely.s o I am mylotting and smiling at some of the discussions I have read.joy we have to ultimately make yourselves happy no one can do that for us.
@joygracia (1326)
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Yeah. Its really nice getting advices from other people whom you never met and yet they've been very helpful with all those advices. Like yours thanks. Mylotting does made me realize that no man is an island and I am not the only one who has some burdens from life.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
14 Feb 10
Well I just find a way that I can enjoy myself on this day besides no big deal. Its just Valentines Day but my husband totally forgot the meaning of this day so I just enjoyed it with my son watching disney channel. It really hurt but never mind anyway. ;-(
@joygracia (1326)
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
guys just kinda don't mind important events like this. Well in my case my ex just don't give a damn about it especially on me.