Why are girls attracted to older boys?
By aviambitious
@aviambitious (342)
India
February 15, 2010 2:47am CST
Hi friends. I have seen majority of girls are attracted to guys who are much older than them. Why is so? Why are they attracted to older boys?
6 responses
@bananamen1 (442)
• Bulgaria
15 Feb 10
Well...usually boys at my age or younger have different way of thinking than me and it's hard for me to be interested in them. I mean for friendship that's OK, but I don't want to have such guy for a partner. Also probably it have something in common with the complex of Evridipa /the Edip one but in its for for the girls/
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@Jadeluv28 (7)
• United States
24 Feb 10
Most woman are attracted to older men because it is a proven fact that women mature faster than men. If you want a man that is mature you need to look for a man that is 3-4 years older than you. Now with women that date men significantly older than them still boggles my mind. I am not sure what they could possible have in common or anything of the sorts. I think it is kind of weird and creepy.
@aviambitious (342)
• India
24 Feb 10
I agree with you that women mature faster than men, but what if both men and women are mature and both are of the same age? I have seen many women who prefer older men rather than mature men of their age. thanks for the response.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
15 Feb 10
don't know, i prefer an older guy. always have, and i can't explain why. now i'm in my late 20's i wouldn't go over 10 yrs older than me. that well just seems to much of an age gap for me. and younger guys they can come across a a bit imature at times as well.
@summer77 (414)
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
Yeah, that is very common to us girls. It is ok for me to have a same age guy, but after my experiences, I realize that it's better to have an older bf. It's because they are more mature, they have been through many experiences and most likely it's rare that they do stupid things because they've been through it. And I guess an older guy than me will more likely to understand me since they've been into my age. And they know better about things, in which I can easily rely on.
... And why some boys are more attracted to younger girls? LOL.
@aviambitious (342)
• India
16 Feb 10
Thank for the response. I don't know why boys are more attracted to younger girls, may be because they want someone less experienced than them.
@H3idimich3ll3 (150)
• United States
25 Feb 10
i like older guys because i have a twin brother and i see how annoying and rude is he, also he is not as mature as i am.. i need a real man not a boyfriend that i have to babysit.. older guys are more mature and they dont think of video games, there much sweeter and no how to keep up with conversation also more experience. my boyfriend is about 4 years older than me and ive been dating him ever since i was 14 so i believe its going good i never imagined to stay with him for 4years.
@aviambitious (342)
• India
25 Feb 10
Girls become mature early than boys of the same age. Thanks for the response
@wythe25 (96)
• United States
25 Feb 10
It's not so much of an attraction to older guys as it is the want to have an older guy for girls. I have had 4 girlfriends in my life. The first 3 were younger than me, and my 4th and current is older than me by almost 2 years. My current relationship is better than the other three combined. It's something about the freshman girl wanting to date a senior and for some reason the senior wants to date the freshman girl. I don't quite understand it, but I will encourage any and all guys to go for older girls. Everything is much better that way.
