Just i saw in news in this morning; Divorce party organizers, Booming business!!

divorce - painful or not?
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
February 15, 2010 3:25am CST
Bury the past and move on to a new tomorrow. This business has flourished in the United States of America, where is the highest divorce rate in the world, then made two married, one will end with a divorce.In my country, the rate is 3 in 10 marriages.so, 3 divorced to 10 marriage. These companies, which organizes the party after the divorce is over, which is often invited ex-husband, is a success. You went into marriage with a party, so why not come out of it with one as well? Many experts agree that in order to find closure and comfort after a divorce, a rite of passage, such as a ceremony or party, is essential. Bury the past and move on to a new tomorrow. Wedding ring coffin as part of the event. Also in the news showed pictures of one such party, and even seemed to me funny, even if it is tragic. in fact the party is like a funeral of former marriages, with candles, a coffin, with black clothes with funny pictures. Do you agree to make such a black party, which bring smile on the lips of those who were divorced, even though to me it seems ludicrous.
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@Opal26 (17684)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Hi icesmile! I know that it shouldn't really be right to make a mockery out the marriage, but I do think it is kind of a funny idea! If you aren't happy in a marriage it is better to get out of it for alot of reasons! My parents should never have been married and they separated and got back together which ended up affecting me and my brother in a very bad way! Sometimes it is for the best if a marriage breaks up! So, I don't see anything wrong with having a silly celebration if someone wants to! As long as it isn't hurting anyone and it is giving closure to the people then I think it is ok!
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
15 Feb 10
Hi, the problem is that are people who make a lot of money, they organized this kind of parties, and i ask myself; matter how somebody earn money or not? can be somebody happy when is happy because other, who pay, are unhappy? just i ask....
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
Hello icesmile, What the Hell?! first i find the idea of the divorce song after the wedding entrance by the kheiz family in youtube . and now they're starting the divorce party?! maybe in western countries such party is made to commercialize it into a new venture but i don't think it's acceptable in my country.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
15 Feb 10
they present this as other side to wedding party, i saw imagines in Tv, i was shocked, but they present as funny too
• Bulgaria
15 Feb 10
Yeah I agree, but it depends of the case of course. I think in some cases the divorce is just to take off a heavy carriage from your shoulders and you feel free. If you feel like you've finished with something that's bad for you and the divorce means a new beginning, full of joy and hopes, so that's a thing to celebrate. Of course, if your heart is broken such party wouldn't be appropriate at all.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
15 Feb 10
is a celebration of freedom a new beginning; a celebration of freedom
@dawnald (84201)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Feb 10
I suppose if a party helps, why not? My Aunt threw her wedding ring into Lake Champlain after her divorce. Me personally, I never throw valuable things away. I would save mine for one of the children.