Do You Tend To Clean More If You Know Visitors Are Coming Round?

@Janey1966 (24170)
Carlisle, England
February 17, 2010 3:49pm CST
I'm absolutely shattered! All this week I have been cleaning, cleaning and cleaning some more! Why? Because we are picking my Mum up 100 miles away tomorrow and bringing her back for the weekend! If I'd got some red carpet I would've made sure I could roll it out on her impending arrival. Seriously though, do you do this? If you have someone who you don't see that often come round for a couple of days do you clean like an idiot? I mean, it's not as though the house is dirty because I'm always here, not at work..so why do I do it? Do I want to create a good impression and not let my Mum think I'm lazy and I don't do anything all day (which is untrue). Honestly, I need a beer after all that. Thank goodness John has come up trumps with a couple of cans of Kronenbourg 1664. Well, at least the new wireless printer is up and running. John saw to that. I don't think I could stand getting involved in yet another task today!
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
hello janey, yeah i am also like that. hen i know that someone is coming over to visit us, i do have a tendency of being too busy cleaning the whole house. i do clean every corner and make sure that they will not see anything that's foul to their eyes! haha maybe i just don't want to give them bad impression yes and i feel like if they find something wrong with me & the house, it will also reflect on my husband... well i guess its really normal. hmm, don't orry, after that you can already relaxed...anyway its your mom right? and not your mom in law? hehe
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
17 Feb 10
Haha! Mother-in-law, definitely NOT the same lol although I must say that this house never looks a tip, even if she comes round uninvited, which she has done a couple of times. At least with my own Mum I have time to plan ahead! I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels she has to clean, clean and clean some more but, like you said, it's done now, so I can relax.
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
hehe...well congrats for job well done! haha and now, after cleaning the hole house & relax, its time to entertain mom!
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• Boston, Massachusetts
1 Mar 10
Hi CK, at least we are one and the same as it relates to preparing our house for our visitors. i am always excited to make the house ready and welcome anybody who wants to visit us and be with my family. @Jane, congrats for that big break in cleaning and thanks mom for the kind effort to make jane feel more relax!
21 Feb 10
oh absolutely, I am the worlds worst housewife. I keep things tidy , although I am also the biggest hoarder in the world. ( I have to read every single magazine, supplement, and newspaper in the house) I could be a lot tidier. Its the little things, like skirting boards and sweeping behind fridges and washing machines. I had a new bed and also a new washing machine delivered on 2 different occasions in the last 6 months. and the night before, i was on my hands and knees, cleaning skirting boards, paintwork and floors. Oh dear and the only excuse I can make is that I am in full time work. . So when you come to my house and I am aware you are visiting, everything will be gleaming, but all the dust will come back down after I have been whirling round like a dervish, with hoovers, sweepers and dusters. Yes I also like to make a good impression, just don't open any cupboards !!
24 Feb 10
hello ??? whats a cobweb ???. Actually I am quite tall for a woman, nearly 5'8" but my excuse for not seeing them is that I am short sighted !
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• Boston, Massachusetts
14 Mar 10
Hi Marge and Jane, ...that's the normal excuse of busy women like us but if given the time and the break can make everything shine and cozy at home right? well, marger, cobwebs are those that the spiders cling on and look nasty when not swept. i feel like our house is a haunted one if we have all those stuff in the corner of our ceiling. thanks to long stick brooms. so easy to take out the cobwebs.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
21 Feb 10
I am exactly the same my friend! When Mum was sat next to me last night when I was surfing the net on her behalf she looked up into the corner (high up) and said, "you have cobwebs" not in a nasty way, she was just observing! I told her that I'm too small to get up there and clean cobwebs away and we have high ceilings! That's my excuse and I'm gonna stick to it!
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
18 Feb 10
oh most definitely. while i try to clean this weeks dirt off the various surfaces in my house, i always do a lot more when i know i am getting company. i want to impress guests with my housekeeping skills! (NOT!)
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
19 Feb 10
Haha! I know what you mean. I once got told off by the mother-in-law when she said "sit down, chill out" when I was about to clean something. I replied, "well, I can't help being houseproud" and was also tempted to say, "unlike your daughter!" Haha!
• India
1 Mar 10
I always tend to have my place clean. So, if any visitor does drop unexpectedly, I am rarely worried over cleanliness. As for you, I do not why you should such a show off of your cleanliness????. Hey, its only mum, yaar. I do not think she will get irritated by your uncleanliness. And I am sure, you do not keep your place so unclean that you should have sleepless nights over this trival issue.
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• Boston, Massachusetts
1 Mar 10
Hi Janey, To be honest YES. it's an extra effort for all of us to ensure the house is truly clean (though we maintain it to be clean...still...). we want our visitors to feel great even if no activity yet--our place is homey and pleasant to stay for them.
• Boston, Massachusetts
1 Mar 10
thanks for that friend. i hope someday you can come and visit our house. one of the area that i focus on in cleaning is thhe bathroom. and when i visit other's house it's the bathroom that i want to see first before anything else.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
1 Mar 10
I best get scrubbing then hehe lol.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
1 Mar 10
Hiya Winky! I can imagine your house is a wonderful place to stay. Full of positive activity I would think and friendly people.
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@kaylachan (57383)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Feb 10
Yeah I tend to do a lot more work when I know people are going to come around. I don't like giving the impression. But, it doesn't help that George starts to become a bit of a nut case when he starts to worry about what other people think. Me, I'd just declutter and dust sometimes and that's enough. But, I end up doing more to please other people (housing inspectors) so yeah I... do it but I should be keeping up, but I don't like I should. Still trying to get George back in the habbit of vacuming once a week.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
19 Feb 10
I just go out to please me, John and my Mum, that's it really. It's never a mess in here so I can rest easy lol.
@BarBaraPrz (45437)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
17 Feb 10
Yeah, IF someone were to come visit, I'd do a bunch of cleaning, too. But that's such a rare occasion that I only clean when I feel like it. (I AM lazy.)
@BarBaraPrz (45437)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
17 Feb 10
Oh, and enjoy your visit with mum.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Feb 10
Nothing wrong with that! I wish I was like that sometimes. Perhaps it's an age thing, who knows? I WILL enjoy my Mum's visit, thank you! When we pick her up I will try to take some photos of pics on the walls (larger photos I took of cows and things) and her moggies...always entertaining. By the way, Dad will be looking after them so they won't be on their own.
@dawnald (85130)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Feb 10
I do but I don't knock myself out as much if it's a family member. The husband makes himself crazy though if ANYBODY is coming over...
@dawnald (85130)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Feb 10
Oh I do. But he's really frustrated about not being able to get me trained!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
20 Feb 10
Does he really? Haha! Hope you've got him trained!
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• Philippines
18 Feb 10
I clean like crazy when I know that somebody is coming for a visit ( unless it's my boyfriend or my brother's girlfriend, cause they are more like temporary residents rather than visitors. Hehehe. ) Actually, when there's a visitor then that's the only time that we REALLY clean the apartment. So just imagine the amount of things that needs cleaning. Hehehehe.
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
Yup. That's true.. Though today I'm thinking of cleaning the apartment, cause it has gotten really filthy, and I cannot stand it anymore. LOL.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Feb 10
Well, it's no good killing yourself unless you really, REALLY have to! Too busy enjoying yourselves, am I right? Good for you!
@malpoa (1216)
• India
18 Feb 10
Oh yes I do. I think everyone does!!! I get a bit OCC when i hear that guests are coming over!!! right form the preparation of food to setting the table to seeing whether everything is in place in one heck of a job ...also if kids are accompanying the guests, then i have to see that all breakable items are above their reach...Also cleaning kitchen before they come is one thing I find very difficult as I would always be with my last set of cooking when they come hi hi
@malpoa (1216)
• India
19 Feb 10
Ah you know how children can be know!! havoc!!! I have this collection of Onyx and everytime I see kids coming in I run to keep them on the cabinet!!! they are so restless, and when their parents are so engrosed in conversation, it becomes even difficult to restrict them from, doing something. we live far from all relatives and since an international airport is near our home, we almost always have guests. Sometimes :( sometimes :) to have them... hi hi
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Feb 10
Goodness me, you do make sure that everything is "just so" when guests arrive, don't you? In a way, I am lucky because we don't have lots of guests arriving at the same time. Certainly no children, anyway!
• United States
22 Feb 10
I usually try to keep my house clean, but I always still stress when I know that I'm having company and I go on a cleaning spree.
• United States
22 Feb 10
Yes, definitely.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
22 Feb 10
Yes, I am the same as you my friend. We can keep on top of it that way can't we?
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
18 Feb 10
I clean if I know I am having company also. I live alone so the house really doesn't get that dirty. If no-one is comming over I let the cleaning go longer than I should. My mother has said (I am disabled). her neighbor should see my house. Her house is dirtier than mine and there is nothing wrong with her. She and some of my friends say I should be proud of my house in my condition and it always seems clean. That is because if I know they are comming I will clean it.
• United States
20 Feb 10
My mother is like that! She is 85 and still in good shape. Better than either of her children. She cleans and irons everything, but she doesn't put tissue paper between things.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
19 Feb 10
That is most impressive I must say! Well done for outdoing your neighbour! We know someone who is 90 years old and she is amazing. She cleans EVERYTHING and her clothes are all ironed and folded afterwards. Apparently, her jumpers are inbetween tissue paper in drawers and she cooks like a dream. Unbelievable, what a woman!
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
you hit the nail right in the head, janey. making an impression is the word. my wife does the clean up, i don't. i want to be as natural as it gets. but my wife wants to show my mother, even our guests, that the house is always in order, not necessarily spanking clean, if you know what i mean. sometimes, though, i also do some cleaning up, but not because some visitors are coming. it's just that the clutter is getting the beast out and i have to fix things to prevent the dragon from coming in...
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Feb 10
The thing is, if I had stuff lying around the place Mum would trip over it as she is accident-prone (just like me) so it makes sense to clear everything up and keep it all clean, not only for her benefit but for mine and hubby's too (who's just done the ironing by the way). Sweetheart!
@jes2ie (50)
• Singapore
18 Feb 10
Hi Janey1966, Absolutely understand! Hey, applies even if someone wishes to pay us a short visit. When someone visits, this is the scenario at home - stress levels increase, tension increase, adrenaline start pumping, tempers fuse, increased mental and physical activities (like you said "cleaning, cleaning and cleaning some more!") - with me experiencing it and at the same time, me causing those around to experience it =) Ha, maybe just wish to create a good impression on friends and relatives? And maybe coupled with my personality of being a near perfectionist in hygiene and cleanliness? For your case, I guess it's cos your Mum is important to you and you want things at home to be in excellent condition for her sake? =)) Have a great weekend with her!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Feb 10
I'm a hygienic person too and I just couldn't stand muck everywhere, it would do my head in! It's got to be right hasn't it? I wouldn't like to stay somewhere that is full of cobwebs and a nightmare to sleep in! By the way, welcome to MyLot!
@jes2ie (50)
• Singapore
19 Feb 10
Ha, yup yup, for hygiene freaks like us, the stress level is higher =) I am also the human mould-detector in my family... hiaks! Thanks for welcoming =) I really enjoy MyLot =)
17 Feb 10
LOL Could you come over and clean my place up in time for the weekend hun? I must confess though I am just the same, and will spend hours and hours cleaning up, tidying up, washing up, and making sure everything is pristine before visitors come over. I wonder why I bother sometimes as the place usually ends up looking like a bomb site by the time they leave :-D
18 Feb 10
We had three guests over last weekend, by Sunday night I wished I had a flame thrower to clean up with - LOL
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
17 Feb 10
Haha! I know EXACTLY what you mean! Mum smokes and I let her smoke in the house. My husband smokes and even before I came along he would smoke at the back door lol. Mum spreads herself about a bit but before she goes home it's like she's never been here as she tidies up first. Awww! That must be where I get it from.
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@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
17 Feb 10
I tend to clean a lot if I know people are coming over...if it's just me I do keep it relatively clean but I don't go all out unless someone is coming over. Because I don't want them to see the place messy.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
17 Feb 10
I'm the same. I don't know what I'd be like if I was working right now. How would I find the time to clean I wonder? I must've done it in the past because I've not always been out of work here in Carlisle. Strange!
• United States
18 Feb 10
Haha yeah I have no idea. I'm not working right now but when I was working full-time I don't know when i had the time to clean because whenever I got home from work I was just too exhausted to care about anything else.
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
21 Feb 10
I do clean my house when people are coming over. We have people coming to stay with us this coming June or July and I will make sure before they come that the house is clean. It will be hard since I will be 8 or 9 months pregnant at the time but I will try my hardest. I am just praying that I am not on bedrest when they come. How boring will I be?
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
21 Feb 10
Congrats on your pregnancy first of all! I am sure you will be fine...if not, then you can use your pregnancy as an excuse not to bother...although I doubt you would do that. Too house-proud, like me!
@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
13 Mar 10
I always NEED to clean more when someone is coming to the house, as I am not a great housekeeper. As it is, I always have dust bunnies hanging around. I think they think that they belong here, and I can't convince them otherwise. I do have things that I don't think I have dusted the entire 3 years I have lived here, and I hate to admit that! I was just thinking earlier today, that I do need to do some serious spring cleaning this year, since some things have not been moved from the spots I've put them in when I moved in here in Nov of 2006!!
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
13 Mar 10
Well at least you are honest and there are areas of this house that I just can't reach due to the high ceilings and the fact I'm only 5ft 4ins tall. We do have little step ladders but I don't trust them. I'm not gonna kill myself over a couple of cobwebs in corners!
• Malaysia
20 Feb 10
well, i only spring clean my house once a year to welcome the new year. since there are 2 new years that i know of, i.e, the western new year on the first of january and the chinese new year that follows the chinese calender, i choose the western calender. my spring cleaning is primarily to remove items that are hardly in use to give away to relatives, friends and charities that i accumulate in that year. i do the normal routine house hold chores and that to me is already clean. when some one is visiting and staying over, then i have to put in extra effort, work, time and energy to clean up and rearrange the bedroom room. usually i have to change the bedsheets, and make sure there are empty cabinet shelves and space for my guests to put their stuff. Janey, you are a wonderful daughter and i am sure your mum loves to be dotted on.she knows you care and love her so much that you walk the extra mile to make her comfortable in your home. why not, the choice is your.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
20 Feb 10
Awww thank you for your kind comments, it is much appreciated. As for yourself, it's obvious you are very good at organising your cleaning depending on the circumstances. Good for you!
@sheetalnr (586)
• India
21 Feb 10
We all have the tendency to clean up the house whenever we expect visitors. Atleast that is one occasion when we actually get involved to clean up the house or laziness takes over.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
21 Feb 10
Well that's very true. I tend to do most of the cleaning but my husband does help out an awful lot compared to some. He's very good that way and I'm lucky to have him!