Is there love after divorce?

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Bulgaria
February 19, 2010 7:43am CST
Do you think you can fall in love again truly and deeply after being divorced? I mean, one time you've loved and believed in someone so much that you married to him/her. Then in some way you get disappointed and get divorced. Is it possible to fall in Love again with someone else - not to feel passion or to be in infatuation, but to Love him/her? Can you trust someone again?
5 responses
@jugsjugs (12967)
19 Feb 10
I have been through a divorce and i have been married now again for the last 13 years and it depends on the reasons to why the two people have got divorced if they can fall in love or even trust another partner as alot of people find that a new relationship is hard sometimes as they have no trust in them.I learnt to trust again.
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• Bulgaria
19 Feb 10
Thank you all for your responses, I really needed to hear such words :) I guess I just have to let to time to do its work and I hope one day I'll can open my heart again.
@etioewe (142)
• Mexico
19 Feb 10
well its difficult to fall in love again in such conditions but you may not know loves can struck you again. there is no giving up, most times in life some poeple find real love after so many huddles in thier lifes, divorce, dipressions and terrible experiences but at the end you just find love.some times you go through those life unfortunate experience so that when love comes you will appriciate it. i know of my aunty that found true love after so many years of her life, she refused to love any man after her first man denied her the oppotunity of true love. but after so many years she found this man i called uncle today who is a widower and what an excellent man he is to her. so i myself have also dicided to be open to love any time any year.
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
19 Feb 10
Sure there is PROVIDED the person WANTS to love again...There is of course that "grieving" period after a break up whether its a divorce or simply the ending of a long term relationshp ya know...but yes one most definately CAN love truly, completely and deeply after a break up/divorce.
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
20 Feb 10
Of course you can, if you want to love and trust again. I was divorced when I met my current husband and have never had a problem trusting..or loving..him because he is not my ex, he is his own person.
@teamrose (1492)
• United States
19 Feb 10
This is really a difficult question as I'm so opposed to divorce. I think most people get married without really finding their soul mate, then after realizing the error of their ways, rather than try to work out the relationship, they take the easy way out and divorce. That said, I do think people can find true love after divorce because theoretically, after divorce a person has learned from their mistake and will think twice before marrying the wrong person. However, some people never learn from their mistakes. With these people, they are doomed to failure. The just want to be married and will settle for the first offer.