Negative mindset : is this right ?
February 22, 2010 2:47am CST
Hi friends, all of us have some peoples around us who are with a negative mindset. They talk and think about all the things and issues with a negative approach, and they mention different kind of reasons behind that, someone says that he is very careful, someone says I a person with a analytical view, one of my known person says that it is very good and beneficial to think negatively about the things. These kind of peoples not only remain failed themselves but they discourage others too. Is this attitude is can say right in any mean. ?
23 Feb 10
Hi vishal, To find out the negative thing and thinking negatively is different. There is nothing wrong to find out the 'negative' of one particular aspect. But thinking always negatively is not at all good and these people may discourage others too. Finding out the positive side may help us a lot to get a success and vice versa. In fact it is difficult to make the positive attitude in us and if you can do it then nobody can let you down.
23 Feb 10
Hi sreekala, being careful about the things is one thing and being negative is another, if you are careful about the things and issues it is a best aspect of your nature but if you are negative about all it is the worst of your nature, you told right that it is hard to be positive but positive people must get success in their life, they face the problem better than others and they do the things more better than others, so being positive is a good characteristic. Thanks for commenting, good day.
22 Feb 10
Ya,their many people in society who always think negative about any things going around,i always try to stay away from them,they may be right from their point of view or the life they have suffered but it's not the good thing to discourage any other person,as all have their own intelligence and own luck, if we have a positive attitude then may be we achieve success but with negative attitude we will definitely not going to get anything in our life.
22 Feb 10
Hi gracce, nice and true words, yes this depends on own luck and intelligence to achieve success in life. If anyone suffered with any kind of problem it is not necessary that it should happens with any other so no one should discourage any other being nostalgic. thanks
26 Feb 10
It's not bad to be negative at time but not always. Being negative means that we are capable of expressing our dislike and will not just say yes just because we are expected to. But your right about those who have negative mindset. You really need to comfortable and confident about yourself otherwise they tend to spread their negativity to you. The best thing to do is to avoid these kind of people since they're not good as far as your self esteem is concerned. They also tend to destroy you creativity.
22 Feb 10
i can understand your thoughts. i have recently seen some really negative behavior from some employees in the new company that i have joined. they always seem to send out only negative vibes to those around them. it causes such unhealthy atmosphere that it is totally unwarranted. such people should be discouraged in whatever fashion it takes, but never ever allowed to exhibit such behavior.