How to find the person who will cherish you all your life?

@hanagi (390)
Philippines
February 22, 2010 6:09am CST
I've a problem when it comes to love. It seems that people would only love me at first and when the time passes by they would slowly lose interest in me? I don't know what's in my personality that they don't like. They tell me I'm just pretending to love and care for them even though I really love them. I don't know how to show I care for the one I love.
5 responses
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
22 Feb 10
You really don't FIND the person, he/she just comes to your life, and when he/she do, you will simply know, it's because of the thing called "love".
@hanagi (390)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
How about when you though you have found the right person and then you let him go away... Would that mean he is not really for you or your just stupid to let him go.
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
yes its stupid to let go whom someone you love, but this is the only way to know that he is realy for you if he come back.. i say this, coz this is already happened to me.. when i know that there is other one before me. and we discuss about this thing and i give him a chance to chose between us, and for helping him to chose easily, i decided to break him.. to let him free..and he comeback it means he chose me. if not, were realy not meant to be..but i know in my heart that he chose coz he already know who i am,and the way i handle our relationship.. even im not beautiful and sexy like the other woman but i know how to catch his attention on me.. the guy realy like a carrier woman, strong in other ways,caring and understanding, willing to listen to him.. and if you give your trust on him, even if there are times that he fails, but you give him your support and incouragement, cook his favorate food, and always be thanful what ever he give you, always say thank you with a smile.. if your were together always smile at him...
• Philippines
22 Feb 10
im also wishing the same thing for me. i wish to find the man that will truly accept and love me for whole my life. i know its not really easy to find one specially if theres too many men who just want to play and not really serious at all. but i know somehow thees one for us out there.
@hanagi (390)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
Yes you are right. There are "some" men who just want to play. It is difficult to have the good ones because they are already taken by someone else. I myself encountered a jerk who I left after I found out that he's been unfaithful to me.
13 Jun 10
noooooooooooooooooooooooo, it's not for find at right place at right time i will get that parson. then i will be vary happy, but now i am whiting for her............ now today forever.....
• United States
24 Feb 10
I have that problem to UGH guys are dum idk but one day we will all find that special one it will take time meenwhile have fun end enjoy the single life
@babysun (24)
• China
24 Feb 10
Be honest, it's hard to find a man who loves you all the time even impossible.I dont believe a man loves a woman all the time.They always prefer to fresh things or the things which they never had before. But I believe in there are some people who have strong responsibilities. Even if love is getting less than before,they would try to fix the relations.