What if u fell in-love with your best friend's boyfriend/girlfriend??

Philippines
February 22, 2010 4:29pm CST
i had a friend(Ms.A) of mine who accidentally fell in-love with her best friend's(Ms.B) boyfriend..because it was always her(Ms.A) that the guy ask about his girlfriend(MS.B), they accidentally fell in-love with each other..she tried to avoid the guy coz she doesnt want to ruin the friendship she build with Ms.B.. so the question is, what if u were on her shoe??what will u do??
4 responses
@andy77e (5161)
• United States
23 Feb 10
You avoid him at all costs. More importantly, you realize the dangers of letting your emotions control you, instead of you control your emotions. It's easier to not get into a sticky situation like that, than to get out once in it.
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
yeah, that is the same thing i told her..she must try to avoid the guy as much as possible..and right now, i can really see that she's changing...for the better.. thanks for the response..
@junrapmian (2170)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
It was hard...it happened to me when I was in high school. My best friend has a boyfriend, my friend introduced me to his boyfriend. The moment I saw him I've got sleepless nights, I always ask my friend anything about him, but I did not inform her that I am falling in love with his boyfriend. It hurts me so whenever I see them two together, I'm jealous maybe. But I did not let my feelings harm my relationship with my friend. I just kept it to myself, anyway, I was very young then, and I thought then that it will pass. Then we graduated from high school and lead different ways, though, we still find some time to meet once in a while. After about 3 years, I bumped into him in a shopping mall. We stop and talk a little while, had coffee together, he took my number and it started it all. He always text me, paid me a visit in school...then he courted me. I was so happy then, feelings started to develop again and then we had this relationship for almost 2 years. I must admit, he was my first love, though I'm not his first. So sad that the relationship did not lasts long...he found another one. Anyway, I've got no regrets with my husband now. In my opinion, let time do it's course, tell your friend, if and when time allows that they meet again, love may bloom. If not, they're not meant to be. Find someone else.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
HI there friend.. I think both of them should evade from each other. Maintain the friendship and forget what happen. If they can't then I think the boy should choose between the two. Whew.. its very complecated.. their love story is very very complicated.
@jmp824 (741)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
do everything you can do to avoid that person. the so called build up relationship was at a wrong time.. its wrong to destroy relationships for the sake of saying that I love that person, or he/she love me... think of the other person also, what would he/she feels? when it comes to love, dont be selfish...