extramarital affair...tiger woods, john terry,...and now ashley cole...!

@junil_jk (496)
India
February 23, 2010 4:57am CST
cases of extramarital affairs and unfaithfulness of the rich and famous are on the rise in the past few months! with tiger woods, it's nearly 20 mistresses, john terry's is above 10 so far, and today i read in the newspaper about ashley cole and it says 5. ashley cole's pop-star wife cheryl cole had SMSed him seeking divorce. it's really unforgivable! be famous, rich, ordinary, poor, or whatever, these things are really unforgivable! i just can't imagine about my partner being like one of them - and i will never do that, ever! just imagine how much he/she have been hurt! so people, if anyone of you out there has done it or is thinking about it, please don't do it! it's right time to apologize with all your heart and confess to your partner on your own. that way your partner will be able to forgive you more readily. if your partner comes to know on his/her own then i think it'll be really hard for him/her to forgive you. this is not a discussion actually but just an expression of my feelings because i feel so bad thinking about unfaithfulness.
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
23 Feb 10
Hey Junil! You make a great point. I feel the same way you do. I have never been cheated on. However I have been broken up with to be with someone else. In the end we got back together. He was always used to having one or two women. He said he was afraid. We've been together ever since. I am so happy he didnt decide to go with someone else cause if they cheat once they'll do it again. Its inevitable. When he did think he couldnt be with just me at least he told me to my face. I think telling anyone thru a friend, phone, computer or whatever else they can think of. That's a cowards way out.dl
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@junil_jk (496)
• India
23 Feb 10
yes, it's much better to tell directly that you don't like your partner or is not interested anymore than cheating and being unfaithful. i appreciate the way he told you straight! i appreciate your thoughts too, thanks!