Have you thought about this?

Philippines
February 23, 2010 9:58pm CST
I am married now, but sometimes i can't help but think what if i haven't married this guy i am with now, what if i married my ex? What would be my life? Would i like it than my life with this guy i married now? There are a lot of what ifs.. have you too thought about this??
6 responses
@nophie (2336)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
yes, when i married sometimes i think about my ex, but i realized that we can't back, it's past. i thought that maybe if got married to my ex, my life will be different.
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
yeah sometimes u can't help but wonder about those things right? it doesn't mean that u regret the marriage.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
24 Feb 10
Why all the confusion, play a safe game, marry one and keep as many as you want.Wink....
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
I think this is not confusion on my part, i just think about the what ifs.. but i don't regret that i marry
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
there are times that i entertain that thoughts in my mind, and it always end up that i am more happy to be with the man that i married. there are a lot of things and reasons why i am glad i did not marry my ex. few of them are, i just discover that i could still love someone more than i love my ex, and i feel well loved by my husband that i never have any tint of regrets that i am with him right now. he makes me so happy and proud.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Feb 10
As far as I am concerned,I think there is no need to think about these too much. If you two fall in love with each other so deep. I think you two must believe in each other ,which can help you live a very happy and comfortable life. If you just want to think about this or that, I think you must think about too much, which in turn will disturb your happy life more. Have a nice day.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
I do have a lot of what if but I still blessed to marry my husband now. Though we have problems and troubles encountered I just dont think that I would be as happy as I am now if I married my ex. My husband is fun to be with. We have our differences and there are still a lot of things to improve on. The only thing that's a question of what if for me now is, what if I knew him before then I would have loved him earlier.
• Philippines
24 Feb 10
Yes, but i find it kind of embarrassing and offensive, because if my current partner finds out about it he'll definitely be hurt.