Will you fall in love with someone you've just met?

I couldn't agree with you more. In fact, they said that the moment you already have reasons why you say you love the person it is not love after all. I am reminiscing the time I decided to get married. You know me and my husband were only together as couple for 5 months and we were not even together as he lived in a different city. But there was really a strong emotion between us and made us decide to get married. I have been into 2 long relationships prior to that but I have never thought to get married to the other 2. But with him after a month of being together we decided immediately that we are going to get married. We even thought of eloping. Haha. After 7 years going 8 with 2 wonderful children, I could say my decision was never wrong. There are difficult times of course but I think our love made us get through it.

hello, Read my writings...as i have said...long or short engagement is not the basis. Love comes unexpectedly.... I also had friend who's been engaged for more than 8 years,but broke up from that relationship becoz she instantly fall in love with a man she just met for a brief acquaintance. I also had experience same situation...we can never say that,short or whirlwind romance is not true. Everything depends on the person/people who were in that situation. So,it's not impossible to fall in love with a stranger either. As long as the person is capable to fall in love,then...love is possible in whatever possible ways too.

That's why I said I agree strongly coz time is not really a basis for good relationships but rather the individuals. Thanks for your reply.

You still mention the hormones huh hehe. Yeah usually the first few months are really the most intense. For others after a few months it seems like they already take for granted their partners. It's just difficult to tell sometimes.

hehe yes sad to say but hormones tell us what to do and how to behave in many many situations. I read all that I wrote in a magazine a few years ago when I was still freshly in love, and I thought it wasn't true, but actually it's true. I still love her very much, but the butterflies in the stomach are gone, I'm happy to see her, I think of her, but not as much as I did at the very beginning, and I don't even give for granted that she's gonna be with me forever, anything could happen.

Goodluck in your relationship girl. I hope you'll gonna cherish and flourish it.

Very unpredictable indeed. Sometimes you think it's love but afterall it is not.

Well in the movie it started real wrong coz the guy was attached. When he tried to break up with his GF it didn't happen so easy as well. He also did try to save the relationship but it didn't work out. The new girl also tried to get on with her life as she felt she was deceived as she was not chosen by the guy. She even found a BF and was about to get married. She didn't knew all along that the guy really tried to look for her all the time that they were separated. When they met the 2nd time it didn't work out again coz the girl this time got engaged. But her BF finally let go of her because he knew that she's so in love with the guy. It seemed like it was the time which made it right for them after all. The movie was so touching and when I finally went out of the cinema my eyes are just so puffy and so my friends' too.

Oh that's the most romantic thing I've heard from someone. I hope you'll finally find the right girl for you. I strongly believe that if you really listen to your heart it will lead you to her. Goodluck.

Then probably his love for his girlfriend is not as much as his love for the other girl. Sometimes I ask the same question too you know. why others still fall for another person and claims that they love their GF or BF?