What can turn off Man to a Woman and vice versa??

@cloud31 (5811)
February 24, 2010 9:12pm CST
What makes man turn off to a woman.?And woman to man? Behavior,odour,looks,or perhaps a family background? What is the very worse can turned you off to a woman/man? As for me, i am turn off to a man with foul breath Lol, a man who always talking about himself and achievements to people, man who let woman pay for their snacks in their first meeting.LOL. And most of all i am turn off to man who has no sense of humor just like talking on the wood no reaction at all!Lol.. I don't care much about looks and family background as long as he got a fresh breath.Lol,humble,sensible and he can make me smile and laugh from his every single words. How about you guys? What turns you off to a man/woman? You may want to share with me...Thank you and Happy lotting!
16 responses
@common_man (1799)
• India
25 Feb 10
false pride,too much of ego, or rudeness in behaviour, turns me off to any person, woman or man.
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
Wow,tell me friend,how to have false pride, i think i have that most of the time..huhuhu..but in certain situation hehehe.. Thank you for responding!Happy Lotting friend!
• India
25 Feb 10
ha ha ha many times a person does not have anything worth feeling proud about, but he'she acts as if he/she is best and all others are of no importance/value. Thats what i refered as false pride. May be i wanted to say show off .
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
Oftentimes i have this i think im having to much pride and i don't value and give importance to somebody's feeling, sometimes its hard for me to say"sorry even i knew i should have to,but note,its actually not in many incidents just few ..of it..and not related to people around me, just to one person..i guess..that is about my pride, it was not a false pride i supposed....hehehe. Thank you friend..Happy lotting!
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
25 Feb 10
Well... This question has been asked from time to time and everywhere, since they started dating LOL... And I absolutely agree with you that women hate all those negative points that you've described in your post. Yes, bad breath and body odour makes them run away from you... A man has to be a good listener when it comes to women, because women are very talkative and they always want a patient listener. Women love to laugh and love those who like to laugh ;). Looks are pretty important too. I don't mean that one has to have the model kind of looks etc., but man maintain your looks; you can definitely do that, can't you. Don't talk about your personal achievements all the time. Drop a word about it, at the correct time and if she asks you for the details then proceed, otherwise wait for another chance. Do you think, you can praise? I am not talking about cheap and false praise just to make her happy. Because in some time, she will know that you didn't mean what you said & they hate liars. So make sure when you praise, you know what you're talking about and whatever words you're using come from your heart... :) Don't get into physical intimacy in your first date, that is harmful. Show her that you care by small actions, women appreciate such things... Let us see what men like! Men are very simple creatures. No complications! So ladies, don't play with their minds; that will drive them away. Make sure you don't talk over your phone a lot, when you're with him and also, don't spend a lot of time sending text messages when he is sitting in front of you, sipping his coffee. That conveys wrong message! If you are interested in him, then let him know it. Don't talk a lot about your previous relations and please don't compare him with your ex. That is the biggest turn off!
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
Wow, there you are talking about man turning point, i agree with you with phone usage, i don't actually talk over the phone when i'm with him unless for business related calls,wewww, now for sending txt message i think i'm not fond of it as well, i don't know if some of those ladies have this habit.Well,i think it make sense about this if i am the man of course i will be quiet disappointed seeing her sending text minute to minute lol,and neglecting my presence,and i don't know if some ladies will talk about their previous relationship as for me i will not mentioned anything about unless he will ask about it..I myself don't opened up topics unless necessary and unless man will talk about their past i won't asked furthermore. I'm grateful sharing your views and opinion regarding this topic.It brings knowledge to ladies like me out there! Thank you and happy lotting!
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
26 Feb 10
I am glad that my advice is going to help you.. :).. Actually I am pretty new at myLot and it seems cool... I need to learn its working though.. :) Well, thank you for appreciating my thoughts. It is such a pleasure to know that my advice will work for someone. And if you really avoid all those things- which I have mentioned here, then you can win any man's heart... There are a lot more things too! But I guess, I should create a blog post about it. Have fun!! Happy Lotting...
@grayxenon (1315)
• Philippines
16 Mar 10
women who pretend to be smart..but lacking thereof.. this doubles my ultimate turnoff airheads! :) second, odour - as i have a very sensitive nose for odors..i get allergies with some scent, (some odor actually turn me on) haha... painted fingernails coupled with uncut/overgrown fingernails - i don't know but i get the feeling that she'll be to much concern of not getting dirty on some man's work/job
@cloud31 (5811)
2 Apr 10
Hi,pretend to be smart is annoying behavior not only for women but for men as well! I'm off to those men who talks more than listened. Odour- well I do have the same sensitivity to odors no one can stand that foul odors from someone you came in contact. Painted fingernails ---Well most woman used to polish their fingernails but I don't may toenails perhaps but not my fingernails. Thanks for sharing!
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
I know all of us are turn off for those people who has foul odor most especially in underarms because it can hold your breath and affect your respiratory system,hehehhhe. Family background sometimes is not issue for me as long as they are properly groom. I hate those people unreasonable and bully.I am turn off also to the persons wearing untidy and smelly clothes, and to the girls have long underarms hair.
@cloud31 (5811)
26 Feb 10
Well i really can't stand to foul breath,honestly that's so ridiculous when referring to girls,i think hygiene is very important to girls and also for boy of course..Hairy under arms well maybe you can asked her to shave it.LOL .. Thanks for responding..Happy lotting!
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
hai friend..hmmm,as for me is the attitude..and also the one who have a vices,like smoking..
@cloud31 (5811)
26 Feb 10
hello friend, yah of course attitude is a must..smoking well it make sense to most man. Thank you friend and happy lotting!
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
As long as I am happy no matter what he is.
@cloud31 (5811)
26 Feb 10
A very practical and unconditional happiness. Tnanks and happy lotting!
@hofferp (4737)
• United States
25 Feb 10
Arrogant know-it-alls turn me off. Unkept individuals also turn me off.
@cloud31 (5811)
26 Feb 10
Hi Hofferp Thank you for responding.Happy Lotting
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
25 Feb 10
Bad breath and body odour is definately, a very big NO. I cannot stand that. I like a man who makes me smile, accept me as i am, not looks at all, respect me and love me unconditionaly. TATA.
@cloud31 (5811)
26 Feb 10
HI saph ,that's really foul..we have almost the same things makes us turned off to a man.. Thanks for sharing..Happy lotting!
@daliaj (5686)
• India
25 Feb 10
I don't care much about the physical looks of the man. A man who always let the wife or girl friend pay for the things they share together is a big turn off for me. A man who always find faults with you is another turn off. A man without humor sense is also a turn off for me. I also don't like men with bad breath and those who are dirty men.
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
We have similar points what makes us turn off to a man...opposite of those those words will turn me on to a man.. Happy Lotting!
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
ahh,,, really those things makes me turned off too.,,,,, but I am turn off to people who have a bad attitude, even they have their looks. In physical aspect I am turn off to people who have a crazy laughing factor, also to man who always cry, person who snore when he/she sleep lol.
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
hi ella it reminds me about snoring Lol,well i used to be like i'm turned off for that but it seems i'm getting used to it.Lol ..He snores that loud.Gosh!! Thanks for sharing! Happy Lotting!
• India
25 Feb 10
There are many things that might turn me off, be it a man or a woman. There is an aura around every person, which would either draw or repel you. For an example an unkempt look, bad breath, soiled clothes, dirt under the nails, chapped heals, etc., are some of the features that turn me off. Bad mannerism is another thing that I find repulsive.
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
People always turn for so many reason and you have just mentioned few of those.And i think most people will turned off to what you have been thought repulsive.Thank you for responding, Happy Lotting!
• Singapore
25 Feb 10
I think habit of making sarcastic remarks and being arrogant are two other characteristics that may turn both a man off a woman and a man off a woman. Everyone prefers one who speaks truth from heart and is humble.
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
Yah i agree with you, sarcastic and arrogant are just few of those behavior can turn off man to woman.. Thanks for sharing!Happy Lotting!
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
"Attitude"
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
Absolutely,nice one baby..thanks for sharing..Happy lotting!
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 10
for me, the most attractive aspect of a man is his brain. I always admire a man who has big brain. I don't mind if my man is not too good looking, but I will be very proud of just because of his brain. a smart man will make my life colorful cos we can talk and share everything.
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
hello humairaku, i mean what's makes you turn off to your man,meaning your dislike...Ok let me guess what turns you off to man...hmmmpp, you like smart or intelligent man, so makes you turns off will be dumb man..Lol Or stupid man, with no brain, Lol,does anyone got no brain?Lol.So what exactly can turn you off?Man's mind. A man with no mind at all..LOL..kidding friend..The capacity of his mind. Thanks for sharing..Happy Lotting!
• United States
25 Feb 10
Bad lloking teeth is a turn off for me. Bad smelling body odor would be another one. Not caring for kids would be on the top on the list. treating a woman with no respect is another. Being bad in love making is another one that will turn me off.
@cloud31 (5811)
25 Feb 10
hello gift, Nice to have you here again,man can turned you off with his teeth, the growing of his teeth,was it be so huge or maybe teeth has different sizes LOL.Of course body odour make sense,nobody wants to hug a man with stinking body odour, irresponsible,disgraceful,and a man with lousy way of love making.hahaha.. Thank you for sharing ,,Happy lotting friend!
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
25 Feb 10
I am really turn off with a woman if her boobs and butt are too small and also if shes not smart girl and don't know how to cook or even fry an egg lol. I turn off also if she is not wearing skirt or dress hahaha.. Funny or quiet girl not is not a big deal for me. Regarding to behavior if she is not sweet or thoughtful. I turn off if she use smoke eww.. Happy Lotting and God Bless...