How do u feel when someone say that u look fatter?

if people will tell me that im look fatter then its alright with me espicially in my condition right now that im pregnant. if im not pregnant and they will say it then still fine with me, what matter is im healthy and strong.

well people seems to be insensitive of their actuation. they just dont know they have hurt the feelings of others. my wife too doesn't want to hear that phrase or rather "complement". but there are really people who likes to do that. they are happy to see what the reaction of the recipient of their statement. the only thing is that to ignore those statement. just move on and be happy...

I have never experienced that situation. I would probably be a little bit upset that someone said that to me, and make take it to mind. Maybe I would go check my weight and see. Try not to let it bother you too much. Words are just words, and people can be rude sometimes but we should not always worry too much about what they say.

It depends on who is saying it - if they are friends that are joking, I am sarcastic and say something similarly rude back. If its my grandmother I get ticked off because she knows how hard I am working to get my weight off as I am very much overweight. If it was anyone else, I would be offended. Thats just very rude - think it all you want, but dont say it.

Just take it as a complement... Every time i here comments like that, may it towards me , or towards other persons, I like to think, that you are just lucky to have more care, more provisions, like food, vitamins, rests, etc... It's just a mind set, on how will you react, positively, or otherwise...