are these men insensitive or what?

@Cutie18f (9551)
Philippines
February 26, 2010 6:34am CST
You see in our place we only have this small cab as means of transportation. Only two people can sit on the main seat while two others get to sit on the extension. I always notice that men, when they sit usually do it with their two legs wide open. When this happens, your space becomes narrower and his thigh would touch yours. Aside from this reckless and intruding way of sitting, they also have the tendency to position their elbows in a way that would touch your side. Now I don't like this. Are men so insensitive as to not care how the other person feels about his reckless behavior? Sometimes I think it's deliberate. What do you think? If you were in that situation, would you tell the man to close his legs and to keep his elbows to his place? What will you do?
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@fsll518 (304)
• China
26 Feb 10
I think that a little rude, if that's delibrate. Why not just directly request him to "do you a favor"? Asking him to leave you more space, I think that's quite normal. He should change a position if you ask... I guess.
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Thanks for responding. I just hope these particular men can start to be more courteous.