if you are or will be married then you want a baby boy or a girl first?
By dilipmiester
@dilipmiester (932)
India
February 26, 2010 7:58am CST
First I want a baby girl. First reason is that because I have generally seen when a girl is elder of the boy she become more mature that the boy and I think a women should become more mature because she has to take care of his family, house, baby, husband, herself or etc. secondly, from many generation where some parents abuses her daughter or they don’t want any baby girl I want to show them here is somebody who want first her baby a girl. I know I cannot change anything but at least can take a step toward. And the third reason is we can see in many cases when children grown up boy don’t respect their parents or take care of them where as girl respect them and even take care of them while being married.
what do you want ?
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15 responses
@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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26 Feb 10
I think I wouldn't mind so much as long as it's healthy. I know that's cliche, but it's true. 
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
The first baby that I wanted when we are newly wed is a baby girl and it was happened. The Lord gave us the baby girl we wanted. Same with what you have said most of the first born baby girl are mature than a boy when they grew up. But I don't really believe on that sayings coz my own little girl does not like that. She is less mature when it comes to responsibilities. This is just slightly true with my little kids.. but I know it will change when they already grown up. Thanks and have a nice day!
but I know it will change when they already grown up. Thanks and have a nice day!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
i am married for 7 years now and we have a four year old son whose picture appears as my avatar. my wife has been in a lot of miscarriages before we hit the jackpot. it was really a battle and emotional hurtful specially for my wife. so we no longer choose what would our child be. no matter if its a girl or a boy as long as that baby will develope and be born. thank God that after waiting we have one, and the waiting was worth it. you have a good reason but sometimes we dont get what we want. like us we've been in and out of the hospital because of miscarriages but in the end as long as our child is normal and healthy.... we are indeed very happy.
@thunderbala (748)
• India
26 Feb 10
i wish to have a girl babe too,but am happy what ever baby is born healthy.i want a girl because i waane see my girl through my babe since i met my gal only when i was 18,i just missed her badly for the first 18yrs in my life so i wish to see how my girl would be in those days through my babe,i should take care of her a lot,she should never be sad at any time i wish to be the best dad ever like how my dad is to me.
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@jofyjose (1)
• India
27 Feb 10
My dear friends it is no matter the baby is boy or girl.The main matter we want to think that it is a gift from god.there are many peoples they have no baby.I think they will always pray give me at least one baby, no matter it is a boy or girl.so i want to say that thanks the god for giving you a baby.
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
I prefer a twin boy and girl.my mom's an identical twin.this ups my chances of having twin babies myself.that way,there is no need for me to give birth again,since I have a boy and a girl already.
@saliyzhu (64)
• China
27 Feb 10
I think the baby girl will be good. As it's very lovely and gentle. I can dress her as a Bobby. And when she grows up , she will not be responsible for the load of family. But my bf wants a boy because his father wishes. We usually discuss with him on this question. I think in our heart , whether baby girl or baby boy will be ok . That is the gift from god.
@freeboy90 (456)
• Italy
27 Feb 10
When I was younger I wanted a boy and a girl, now I think I would like more to have two boys, I think for fathers it a little more difficoult to understand or help daughters some times, with boys it's easier, you have been a boy your self and you can imagine what they can enjoy or what they might like, and once the hit adolescence you will not be as worried as if you have a daughter when they go out with friends. And I don't know why I always liked twins, so it would just be great to have twins ( 2 baby boys) and then probably stop, but if I will have girls than it will be ok too I just like to have kids and as long as they are healty it will be just great for me.
@common_man (1799)
• India
27 Feb 10
i would not mind weather its girl or boy, it should be healthy in all respect, that is more important.
@joebrpt84 (85)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 10
i want my first baby born to be a boy... i want to teach him lots of thing and especially playing sports with him.
@hellasreh (7)
• Australia
27 Feb 10
i would like to have a boy first and then a girl
i always thought the idea of having a stronger older brother helped me
it makes a change in someones life to have someone older besides parents to look up to and talk to
@clrumfelt (5490)
• United States
27 Feb 10
I had a girl first and then two boys. They are all grown now, but when they were coming I didn't care which, just that they would be healthy.
