Do men can tell to their women all secrets of their life? Or women can do also?
By verptc
@verptc (246)
Philippines
February 26, 2010 8:18am CST
It is but by nature men do not tell their secrets to their women. It was during my younger days that all these things happened. Telling lies to prospected woman whom I wanted to be my future bride. I went around playing with so many girls, courting and proposing, telling so many not true stories. From different places I have so many girl friend all at same time. Then I found my true love who is now my wife. I told some secrets of my past life but not all fearing it may cause trouble, discussions,anger,fighting will lead to separation. I have guilty feeling if I will keep it for the whole of my life. How do men can tell their woman secrets of their life with no argument or problem arising?. Are women can do the same thing?
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8 responses
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Sometimes you need to, just to avoid arguments,your partner might misunderstood it, and as what you have said it might lead to separation. I also have some things that I can't and I won't tell to my hubby, and i better keep it, If there's someone really knows everything about me? that is my mom, yes, we can tell it all to our mother cos we came from her, so no matter what it is our mom always willing to support and understand us
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
For me the women is seldom do that way I've notice the men are prone of that attitude.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
yes your right, most men tend to hide their secret mybe because they're not emotionally vocal unlike women who wanted to tell secret than keep them hidden to lessen burden in their mind and heart. somehow, you need to hide something to mae the relationship stay fine specially if both of you dont want to ruin the relationship.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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26 Feb 10
hi! It really depends on the person we are talking about, because there are different types of men and women and not all of us and them like to share everything with their partners. When I still had a girlfriend, I told her everything about me and what I have done, and she told me also everything. we hadn't got any secrets and it was really cool. but now I am SINGLE :) and have no one to share with
@gtloquero (271)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
The only thing that could keep relationships stronger and harmoniously is UNDERSTANDING one another. Understanding one's folks in life. Understanding you partners feelings. And, Understanding REALITY. I know there are some issues in life that must be kept private. I think there's nothing wrong with it. :)
@lovelysassygirl (256)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
Its depend on the person. If he/she can accept the facts/secrets about his/her past then its good to tell the truth. But there is a big persentage that men and woman can tell the secrets. =)
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
26 Feb 10
I thnk it depends on the couple really....I mean my husband and I havent shared EVERY deep dark secret with each other but my ex bf shared all his with me and I started sharing and was more than willing to share mine with him...BUT my ex and I were perfectly matched for one another so it was easy...My hubby and I are two completely different ppl from two completely different worlds so its not so easy ya know..
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 10
Both parties try to be honest to each other but are quite careful not to fully open up the can of worms. Revealing too many dark secrets might hurt the other which might leave a lasting impression that might rekindle when there is arguments. So be smart enough to tell what is appropriate. Though honesty is the best policy but sometimes it can ruin a good relationship.
