Do Male friend and Female friend are different in relationship?
By smileonstar
@smileonstar (4007)
United States
February 26, 2010 1:36pm CST
HI,
Friends are a gift to me and I love to keep my friend relationship, just like "Friends show" they are so cool with each others and not even that, they shared just about everything with each other. However, my female friends never do that to me even I do share with them. they just hiding things and jealous sometimes, and I dont understand why? for my male friends... they love to hang out with me and sometimes my female friends thought we are something.
Have you ever thought about your friend that way before?
To me, I think friends are friend and I love them all the same, I treat them nice and always share. I dont like to pick on them and I never look down on them either. sometimes when I do good effort to a male friend then my other female friend will think I like this guy. OH GOD, please stop.
So, I want to know do they mean different? or may be just themselves right? to me, I feel nothing, absolutely nothing about my male friend. Please share
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6 responses
@mandeep_chahal (172)
• India
27 Feb 10
ya a little time before i was thinking same....but....when i come across diffrent frnds then realise all of them r not same.....of that type ...but if really they r gud frnds thn they share with u every emotion.....it dosent matter whether it is male or female.......go threw more peoples u will come to knw this.....some of female frnds r more frank then male.......some day u will got such a good female friend...thn u will not say this.........try....to gentel with females...
@mandeep_chahal (172)
• India
27 Feb 10
now in way of diff...if wana to knw.....male n fermale r diff frm each other
in every way frm, their birth......nature behviour...relatoinship.......males always fell more comfortable thn females......females always expect more if u go more close to them n in end u always found that u was failed to give her enough attention...its all bcz of female nature.......if u wana to knw every thing abt her u must be emotionally attache wid her...even male need to be so close they sher their emotions easily...
@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I also believe that friends are a gift from God. Female friends and male friends may be physically different AND also different on a social manner as well, but, at the same time I think that friends should be treated the same - taking in and considering personality differences. Even though we are all the same, basically, we all have different personalities and that should be reflected and respected in how we are related to. As an example one friend may have be a bit of a comic and, therefore, likes to joke around a lot and another friend of yours is just a bit introverted and studies a lot. Of course you would treat and respect each one individually as human beings, but, because of their marked difference in personalities you might consider relating to them on different levels.
Purrs,
Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Feb 10
hi smileonstar I think men are more straight forward with friends a nd sometimes women can be little cats, and not in a good way either. there is nothing wrong with a friendship with males. I am 83 and not at all romantically inclined but I have male friends here who are just friends, thats all, just like my women friends are just friends. Some people including some women have the foolish idea that you cannot be just friends with a man, which is so silly. for one thing for me, I am old enough to be mom or grand mom
to a lot of male friends I have here. I wish more women would be as straight forward as friends like men are, I think some older women are more likely to be straight forward and not hiding things and not into jealousy at all
to a lot of male friends I have here. I wish more women would be as straight forward as friends like men are, I think some older women are more likely to be straight forward and not hiding things and not into jealousy at all
@sushie93 (1355)
• France
26 Feb 10
I don't why your female friends are jealous throught you but their behaviour towards don't seem to be real friends. You are close with your male friends, your females friends are not so close with their male friends, it is why their think about "strange" things beetween you.
I wish we all have good friends like "fRiends" (series-tv) ^^, they always share all things with each others, support each others, doing so cool things together and never are jealous beetween them.
@common_man (1799)
• India
27 Feb 10
Have u read the book "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus" The male and female are different, in biological parameters, mental set up, exposure, experiences, precautions they need to take while interacting with each other. Therefore male friends and female friends do interact differently with each other.One should not take that difference so seriously.
@Roopjyoti (101)
• India
15 Mar 10
Once a man said, whiten male and female everything is possible but friendship is not. How ever this is an old thought. Now a days everyone is under pressure and looks for solution for their problems. Not to say that some problems only can possible through female and some are through male. I personally get many solutions from my female friends instead of my male friends. Friendship is not just a desire to have fun but it is also a way of life. Your role is more important than your hobby or passion in friendship as only one hand cannot make claps itself. Right...?
