Do you read the emails, sms, whatever, of your couple??

Venezuela
February 28, 2010 12:00am CST
Ok, my girlfriend is not like that, but, a friend of her is used to read the emails of her husband, and that's not just the thing, the thing is that she deletes those emails that she thinks are ofensive to her. Wh WH what the ???..... do you think is that correct?
7 responses
@Chad525 (349)
• Canada
28 Feb 10
Personally, I think that is awful. In a relationship, there needs to be trust...and checking your significant others e-mail, text message, Facebook, MySpace etc messages is a sign of a lack of trust, which truly doesn't belong in a relationship. If you feel the need to "snoop" or "pry" into your others personal information - than something is very, very, very wrong. On top of things, to go into somebody elses personal information and remove it/delete it is even worst. Offensive or not, its not yours, so you shouldn't be looking, let alone removing it. If I knew my fiancee was touching/snooping/removing...we'd be having a huge discussion. Trust is #1 in a relationship. Without it, you don't have a relationship... So no, far from correct.
• Venezuela
28 Feb 10
yes i agree, and even worst because they got married just months ago
• Japan
3 Mar 10
But how can you trust a person if there is something now shown to you? We are open to each other. We can read emails,. we can share sms, the term is not snoop, pry, its sharing and informing your partner on the latest of your life. It works for us as a couple.
28 Feb 10
I know you shouldn't read your partner's emails but what a temptation! I trust my husband completely but I'm such a nosey person I think I would find it hard not to take a peek. We both have email addresses but both have access to each other's accounts. In fact, he often phones me from work and asks me to check his home emails. I have nothing to hide and neither has he. However... should I ever discover he has a SECRET email somewhere then I would just have to have a look if I could. Does that make me a bad person?!
• Venezuela
28 Feb 10
Well you aren't a bad person, i think it's just a confidence problem,you should talk each other about those things, well it's just my opinion.
@Dumpertaker (1187)
1 Mar 10
I would not read the messages my girlfriend receives, that would be wrong. Relationships are based on trust and there is no trust if you are checking you significant other's messages.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
if someone text to my boyfriend he show me the message and let me read it. about his email i also have an access to his account. sometimes i read his emails. but he has a permission. it is fine with him if i read his email.he has also an access to my account. but i never delete the emails on his account. it is improper to delete emails on the account of her husband. they should talk about it if she thinks that its offensive. for me it is ok to read sms and emails and to open other accounts if there is a permission from you and your partner.
• Japan
3 Mar 10
Yes because we both agreed on it. How can you trust if the other person is not showing everything to you? That is our principle and it works for us as couple.
@fsll518 (304)
• China
28 Feb 10
I don't have GF, even if I have, I wouldn't check her info. That's just not necessary... if she wants to cheat, then she would, not matter I check her info or not. Whatever will be, will be. No sense to waste nerves.
• Venezuela
28 Feb 10
yeap, she has serious problems with herself
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
28 Feb 10
I will never read his mails and he will never read mine. That is the rudest thing to do. She obviously don't trust him. That really is a shame. No privacy at all. Bad. TATA.