I need help from women

United States
February 28, 2010 1:04pm CST
If I think women are beautiful, then how do women react to us? I just don't get it
4 responses
• India
28 Feb 10
What woman wants is to be led by a man because in most of the cases they get confused about what they should do.So presence of mind to handle some crucial issues is important.Moreover what they want is generous and jovial character.What you need to do is to outwit her.Looks doesn't matter for a grown up lady.They basically look for someone upon whom she can depend in all circumstances.So,use impressive jokes so that she could laugh enough or at least smile,try to be serious when you listen to her,and go get her.By the way,forget about your looks.It's your personality overall that makes a woman fall on her knees.Best of luck!
@MoonGypsy (4611)
• United States
28 Feb 10
i think you are soo wrong. looks are just as important to us, but you are right intellect and a good spirit makes you look better. i disagree that women want to be led, or that we can't handle serious situations. we want a partner to stand by our side, not rule over our heads. i can take care of myself without a man. i don't mind him being a man and being head of household, but that role isn't what people think it is. men are protectors of women and a covering, not a ruler. we make decisions together.
• India
28 Feb 10
'To be led' doesn't mean 'to be dominated';leaders don't dominate;leaders make intelligent and acceptable decisions and they are ready to discuss if necessary.And about 'Looks',it depends on the maturity and range of thinking of the person concerned.One more thing I'd like to add.God has not made a perfect human being.If He has given beauty,He has forgot to give something like some physical/mental impairment like asthma or something, along with that.
• India
28 Feb 10
'To be led' doesn't mean 'to be dominated';leaders don't dominate;leaders make intelligent and acceptable decisions and they are ready to discuss if necessary.And about 'Looks',it depends on the maturity and range of thinking of the person concerned.One more thing I'd like to add.God has not made a perfect human being.If He has given beauty,He has also given something like some physical/mental impairment like asthma or something, along with that.
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
for me, whats inside of women is more important. has thoughts and good attitude.
• China
4 Mar 10
For me, if a guy think i'm pretty and describe it in an positive way, i can accept it easily and if he is honest, i think we can be friends.
@pierrella (1088)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
It is important that you can carry a good conversation. Otherwise, women just get turned off. Strike a good conversation about life in general, your interests, ask her about what does she do in life. Aside from communication, your personality is important. Sometimes women look for men who has the personality that matches our personality. It's like a compatibility test :) If you think a woman is beautiful, tell her. Delivery is also important so as not to scare her :)