Baby Daddy Nightmare (Part 2 of Many in drknlvly6781's updates)

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For those who were following me when I last was active, I was posting about problems with my baby daddy. That thread is here for those who would like to catch up. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1984681.aspx Anyway, I last updated that thread with us going to court and having some mediation, and things were looking up.....of course that didn't last long. After the mediation he came out to see his children 3 times. Twice I paid for all his bus fare, the third time his wife brought him here, then I paid his bus fare home. Then the texts started. He would ask about the kids, and then start talking to me. Even though I told him over and over there would be nothing between us, he started the flirting stuff all over again. Telling me he was leaving his wife, and wanted to move in here until he got a place (don't worry, I wasn't that dumb) He even pulled the old "What if I wanted us to get back together?" crap. I told him promptly that I didn't want us to get back together. That's when things took a turn for the worse. He started with the suicidal texts. How he was going to take these pills because no one wanted him. I've been down this road with him when we were together, so I paid that no mind. Then he started talking about how he should go back to his other baby mama. Bleeding heart that I am, I told him he needed to be by himself for a while, figure himself out. I told him he didn't love her, nor anyone for that matter, because he didn't love himself. But then he decided to lash back out at me. Said that he would be closer to the two kids that he has with the other mother, because transportation wouldn't be an issue. That is when I lost it. If bus fare is an issue to see your kids, then you aren't a man. You aren't trying to see them. So many men go through way too much to see and take care of their kids, and what's blocking him? $1.75!!! So the last time we went to court, I showed the judge the text messages he sent me, and told him that I wanted him to go to parenting classes, pay some support since he hasn't since July, and get a Psychological Evaluation, before he saw the kids again. He doesn't realize if only he would have worked with me, court wouldn't have to be involved...... Court won't take his rights completely away, but the are having him investigated by child protective services to find out exactly what his problem is. We go to trial at the end of April. I wish they would just wrap all this up. He doesn't want to see nor support his kids, and he wants it to be my fault, which will never be true. They would be better off in life without him.