What do you do if your spouse comes home drunk?

coffee does NOT sober you up, it only makes a wired drunk. When he comes home drunk, I send him to bed.

I'm a guy so I'm pretty laid back about that kind of thing. That way I always have a get out of jail free card up my sleeve. Neither of us drink in excess often. My girlfriend and I have an arrangement. No driving. It doesn't matter if it's 2 drinks or 10. Take a cab or call for a ride. And yes, there will be a fair amount of fun made at the others expense. It's just not worth getting mad about. That's assuming it isn't a frequent occurrence. I've dated girls like that. It's not so cute.

I'd give him hell for getting drunk wihtout me. LOL I would want us to have a good time together. The nice thing about where we live is that the social bar where we hang out is right next door, so we can go over there, do what we want, and walk about 50 feet to get home.

If my hubby came home drunk I'd NOT be happy...He's been sober for close to 20 yrs now so it wouldnt be something I would tolerate or be happy about...I would most likely put his dumb drunken behind to bed and save the blastign him for the following day...And O.M.F.G would he EVER get it from me!

I cant remember ever seeing my husband drunk.... my sons, yes.(Just one time, each) One of them I dragged into a carpetted room and threw a duvet over him - & then sat with him to make sure he didnt throw up and choke. The other one... lets just say I was washing the kitchen floor at some ungodly hour. I put 2 paracetemol and a large glass of water out for them the next morning.

I rarely see my husband drunk thankfully as he do not go out drinking alot.I think that when he has come home drunk then he is really funny as he always has to put his fingers down his thtoat to make himself sick.He hates getting drunk to the state of having to make himself sick as he is ill for days afterwards.He has never been nasty when he has been drunk,other than a time where as his friends were smoking infront of him as he hates the smell.

My ex got drunk on the rare occasion. Sometimes it made him agressive. When he was like that we would usually end up fighting. Even though I tried rto be calm and rational, he would still get agro. His son when he was 15 came home drunk one night and I was not impressed. I think the son will turnm out even worse than the father.

The last time my partner came home drunk I sent him straight into the shower to sober up. It doesn't happen very often though and he's usually just *silly drunk* rather than roaring drunk.

Hi, Ice! I really stopped by to say hello, because, thankfully, John doesn't drink at all!

i know how i am if i am too drunk. i had almost lost our lives years back. i know i was driving to the city across the island that night but never remembered i drove back home. from that time and up to this times, i never will drink again more of what i can take, when i drink out. it could be okay for both of us to just drink and get drunk at home. we became closer in drinking sessions and become much closer when we became drinking buddies for the rest of our lives.

I do not have a spouse. I do live with my parents, and there are days where my father will come home drunk. I do not mind if he comes home and drinks, but I do get bothered knowing that he was out drinking and drove himself home. I generally remind him that he is putting himself and other drivers in danger by driving in that state, then I tell him that I will talk to him when he is sober. My dad thinks that he has to be drunk for us to talk to him and I am trying to remove that idea in hopes that it discourages his drinking.

well as long she wasnt driving i wont get mad, might be upset. but then again i used to come home drunk all the time and she would get so mad at me

if your spouse come drunk , then its depend upon his mood how u will react, because the people who drunk have no sense