how bad does it feels :(

@ankitshr (228)
India
March 1, 2010 9:28pm CST
You are really tired, got nothing in mind, then you try it more harder, and make something good enough in mind, then you start a new discussion, with a hope of getting decent responses, and when you dont get what you expected, How bad does it feels to you, I feel like pulling my hairs x(, annoyed, irritated :(. does it happens with you too,
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5 responses
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
you have no idea ankitshr, it does happen to me too. Most of my discussions here don't have much response but there are quite a few which earned many comments and it is funny because these discussions i started are for from interesting. Anyway, i know how you feel, its utterly very upsetting when nobody seems to be interested in your topic. But the advice I may give you is try to search your topic first in the discussion search and when something popped out which is almost the same as your topic on mind then don't discuss it anymore. As of my observation, discussions that are repeated seem to havo few responses...got my point? So don't give up, start a new topic which will interest other people. Some people have the flair of creating really interesting topics and they are the ones earning more comments here in mylot...but don't worry...you can do it too....happy mylotting.
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@ankitshr (228)
• India
2 Mar 10
I think the point you stated here is quite accurate :), thanks :), i find it really helping, i would from now onwards search for the topic,
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 10
hi ankitshr I was there just where you are now once, and a kind lady mylotter told me that as I was sort of the newkid on the block I needed to get my user name known to other mylotters.So I was to post responses like crazy as she said we will see this hatley again and again and decide she does a great job responding to our discussions, we will have to respond to her discussions. and ajnkitshr, it did work as I started to get a few responses then more. Also she said add friends as they will help you too in getting responses to your discussions.So yes I felt bad as I thought my discussion was pretty good, and soon I did get responses then I found by commenting on the responses I started to earn a little money too. so try my suggestions add friends and do a lot of posting and people will see you and like your responses.soon they will respond to you.
@ankitshr (228)
• India
2 Mar 10
hatley , thanks a lot mate, you encouraged me, :), and i'm feeling alot better now, and this makes me feel like adding you to my friend list :). i do post but not alot, i'll try to do as u suggested and i wish everything will go for me the way it did for you :), thanks alot again :)
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
3 Mar 10
I have that happen to me too, and it makes me wonder why, as I thought i had a good discussion. What is good to me though, ksn't good to others. I am glad that I am getting response to my discussions though. I have not had one discussion that didn't get me zero responses. I am really thankful for that for sure. I have received more responses on some discussions, more than I thought I would, and some I got less than I thought I would. That is one reason why I don't post many discussions, because I do have a hard time coming up with good topics. So, one never knows how well our discussions are going to do down with others. I will probably start more eventually, once I come up with a good topic to discuss. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
@ankitshr (228)
• India
3 Mar 10
thanks alot :)
@Mady2791 (545)
• United States
2 Mar 10
Yes, it's very upsetting.
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@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Hey ankitshr! I don't think of any. If something comes to mind that's the time I make a discussion. I don't pressure myself in dealing with these to avoid further frustration, just enjoy and enjoy the time. There's a lot of good things to do around here.
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