How much do you spend on gifts for other people's kids?
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
United States
March 2, 2010 12:35am CST
My DD1 has gotten invited to alot of b-day parties this year. I set the limit at $10. Do you think that is too low or too cheap? I don't have alot of money so I think $10 is fair do you agree? Plus they are little they are only 6-7yrs old it's not like they are picky teenagers yet... AMEN!
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
2 Mar 10
That's what I'm thinking @ their age that they don't care unless as long as it's something they like.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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2 Mar 10
hi! till now I haven't been to a birthday party to some kid of a friend of mine, because all my friends are still a little bit young to have a kid or maybe not, but when i go to the birthday party to some of them I usually spend the equal amount as for the others, because I really don't think i must make some differences between them- they all are my friends and i respect them. I usually spend about 20 leva- our currency, which means about $14-15 dollars, and here for those money you ca buy something really cool!
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
2 Mar 10
That's nice of you to find them really cool gifts at a reasonable price. Unfortunatly "really cool" comes with a pretty big price tag usually. But also if the kids were BFF's maybe I'd consider raising the limit.
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
4 Mar 10
I think that is a good limit, especially since you can say the gift is coming from your daughter. You might also want to take into account how much these parents gave your daughter when it was her birthday (if anything) and bump up the present a little if they gave her something bigger.
But overall there are plenty of great toys under $10 and a kid at a birthday party is getting so many things that they don't need anything more than that.
@Dumpertaker (1187)
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2 Mar 10
When it comes to gifts for people, I don't really like setting a limit, as long as the person likes the item I am going to get them, and I can comfortable afford it at the time, then it is not an issue.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
2 Mar 10
Well if affording it wasn't a problem then I wouldn't set a limit & if it was my kid(s) too.
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
I don't spend a lot on gifts too. In my country there are a lots of China made toys and they are quite good too. Children don't have an idea if it's an expensive toy or not. For my daughter all the dolls which looks like Barbie are all Barbie for her even if they are not. For them as long as they got something to open and as long as it'a toy they're happy about it.
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
2 Mar 10
I think you're being very fair. In fact, I would set the limit lower! I don't think parties for children that young should include gifts--I always specified no gifts because I wanted my boys to think of a party as a time of fun instead of gifts, to enjoy the people and invite them because they liked them, not because of the gifts they would bring. It worked out well, and my now adult sons think that having their friends over is better than any gifts the friends might bring.
One time when we had no money to spare, I made cookies with the child's name on them. He loved trucks so that's what they looked like. They were a big hit, they made him feel special.
I also think children's parties are overdone these days, too much money spent on them. The simpler things are for children, the more perspective they have on what is important in life.
Sorry for the lecture. This is a sore point for me. Hope your daughter has a good time at each party she goes to!
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
2 Mar 10
Aw heck, I gave up on buying gifts and now I just get the kids a $10 gift card. The last 2 b-day parties my daughter went to, I even forgot to buy a card, so had to put the $10 into a plain envelope, lol.








