Do you know when is love right or wrong?
By uniqueorn
@uniqueorn (1011)
Philippines
March 4, 2010 8:09am CST
When you love, you just can't define things if they are right or wrong as many would say. Loving is like complicating your life after having put things properly and orderly. After all the problems you had in the past are altogether fitted and organized, sometimes love breaks and shatters them again. Do you know when to love right or wrong? Or do you know when the love you feel is right or wrong?
12 responses
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
Hi my friend,
I have figured it out that the love I have given to someone is right if I am totally free... totally free from the past, totally free from everything and there is no guilt within me. Sometimes I love somebody, but some part of myself is being taken by someone and I am guilty for it... Now I know that my love is right and not wrong... I love her... Though my past is still vivid on me... though sometimes those memories are lingering on my mind... but my heart is totally free from it... there is a little mark, yes... but my entire life now is dedicated to her... no more doubt... And I would pray to heaven that this would last till eternity...
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
I hope too, primeaque that this time around, your prayers would be granted. Who anyway would not pray this 'litany' everytime we fall in love? We always pray for hope and love to spring eternal. This is the way it is. I pray along with you that she will finally be the one. I can see the sincerity of your words through the diction of your paragraph.
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@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
Thank you my friend... I am always praying that we two can all pass what ever trials may hinder our relationship....
anyway my friend... I am always following you... you are such a nice person... and look, congrats for your star... Keep up the good work my friend...
@midnightbliss (541)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
when you're in love, sometimes you can't be rational, and you can be biased, but you will know that it's not right if it's starting to ruin your life. like when you do things that you know is not right but you still do it because you the the person. and you know that the love you have is right if it makes you a better person.
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
That is what I am talking about. All men are rational. But love can make us lose the gift of rationality.
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
You should not be blinded by love. Love makes you see clearly not only the person but also the people around you it is not selfish. Love is an expression of life. Even if you lose it or "shatter" it, it will always be there ready to receive anyone asking for it. Love is relatively simple, it has a child-like quality it is us who makes it complicated. Peace be with you.
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
I agree. Our actions and decisions only complicate us. But we really cannot take away from committing mistakes when we love and complicate ourselves. This is something common to the universe. Good for you if you have the courage to make wrong things right when you are in a relationship. Because only a few have the guts to do this. It also takes two to tango.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
Of course,we can categorize wrong from the right one.
Loving someone who is married is not all about love..but i think mostly with lust.
Some people says'...love has no condition.
Ok,they love each other,but one is married and it would lead to wrecking a family.
Right love is when,both were single and loving each other.
With respect and pure intentions...not becoz the other one is richer and belong to a high society.
There is always a reason why love becomes wrong or right in the peoples eye views.
but for the lovers...nothing is wrong...every possible ways of loving is right,even if God condemned it.
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
This is what I am talking about! That love has no conditions, but we know very well that there has to be some conditions to be considered. Like, extra-marital love affairs, fixed marriage, teenage pregnancy, family conflict and those things that ruin not only you as a whole but the people surrounding you too.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
for me, i guess that whenever people in love they tend to be blinded with the love they feel without thinking if its already wrong or right. its true that theres another door open when someone else door close and whenever bad times we had in the past relationship will serve as a lesson to learn so we can avoid it in the next relationship. but then we really cant avoid those who just want to play no matter how serious we are if the one dont then theres really no successful relationship after all. as for me, i will not give my 100% to the person i love so theres still left for me if he left me.
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
Definitely! I have tried loving in the past too. After committing mistakes of recurrence, I always make a vow not to do it again. But sadly, I am blinded by love when I fall again. It's hard not to commit those same mistakes again. Even though I'm stronger, but still I shatter.
@yoursjannat (839)
• India
4 Mar 10
The most sacred side of of love is that it prevents you from even raising the topic at all.All that is no-love makes you fall.So there is no right or wrong time in falling in love.But it counts when you learn from the break up and move forward along with it.For every debacle there is a mismanagement.Spotting out that should be the first step toward being mature and strong and invincible.Who can say one day you will meet your dream-girl?
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
I had a very nice read. Genuinely, love makes us stronger just right after we break. Moving on a step closer to maturity. But I hope too, along with the maturity is to exactly know when to love right or wrong because if we don't have the wisdom to do this, we would only let the strength we have built inside go weak again.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
4 Mar 10
If you have strong feelings for that person, and the person that you are in love with is not going to hurt you or is not going to be supportive of you, then it's perfectly okay to be with that person.
Some women will fall for men who treat them like dirt, and I wonder about those women? There is enough pain, suffering and drama in life, why add on to all of it?
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
4 Mar 10
I think we cannot call it love by context when you are only after the body of the person you are after. So basically, it cannot be classified as wrong love. It may be an obsession and things such as.
@lucygelato (161)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
yes... if your happy and that happiness is from not from others, and your not hurting anyone just to be happy, your love is right. vice versa
@common_man (1799)
• India
4 Mar 10
Love is love. It just happens, u do not love somebody seeing pros and cons, good or bad. Yes if and when love fails, it shatters one's life.
@mandeep_chahal (172)
• India
4 Mar 10
i dont knw when love is right or wrong actually in love every hting is fair soo it dosent matter whether it is right or wrong.....love is love....
@prince05 (92)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
For me there is no time for love, you will not know if it is the right time to love,it just comes to you without you even knowing it. The great challenge in loving someone is making all wrongs seems so right just to save any relationship when it's about to break. It might be too painful but loving is always a risk so you have just to weigh things over first before making any decision. Time is meaningless when you love. Love can always wait for the right time so as not to end love at a wrong time.
