RelationShip ????

India
March 5, 2010 5:52am CST
Hey.. Guys What Will you do after you come to know that your partner is engaged with some other person also.. Reply
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7 responses
@xxlost (59)
• China
5 Mar 10
relationship it is so hardly to do ,but i will do my best for this,because people can not leave this .
• India
10 Mar 10
Sorry. I cant understand your reply can you elaborate this/ I mean to say what kind of action you will take.. what is best as u think at that situation..
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
i will talk to him/her about it and if he/she will admit it that it is true then i guess i would probably ask him/her to if he/she would still to continue our relationship. And best of all i would let her/him choose between us. Whatever decisions he/she will make i will accept it. though its hard but ill see things in a better perspective.
• India
10 Mar 10
Hi,.Why are u usings words like him/her or he/she .. Why r u hiding your gender.
@rachel999 (210)
• India
5 Mar 10
Hi Oms, I am sorry to say this but I find your question quiet incomplete, are you in that relation or is it something you just want to know, what kind of relation is this, friends or as loved ones. Anyway if I was in such a relationship with my boyfriend and later I would learn that he is engaged, and he has not told me about it, then I would say let god save him otherwise I will show him living hell on this earth, well that is me, maybe a little extreme but that is what I would do....
• India
10 Mar 10
Hi Sorry for that.. My question is basicaly for the persons who are commited..and they are in love.
@clocks123 (1227)
• United States
6 Mar 10
i would be very hurt to learn that my partner is engaged to someone else. the good side of this is-- it is better to learn now of this relationship than after you have been married or have been more serious with this person. this person isn't good for you dating you and this other person. you are worth more than this. the best to you as you move forward to someone who you can trust and who really loves you.
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
Nothing will be achieved if we act drastically about this situation. I would straighten the facts first of course. We both need to sit down together and talk this over. First, I would be asking her if it was true. Second, of course I would need to know why she kept it from me for so long. Then lastly, what does she intend to do about it. After that talk, I will give her time. But I also want to make sure she knows that I cannot wait forever. There will be an ultimatum. She needs to understand that we can't waste our time playing hide and seek.
@cloud31 (5810)
5 Mar 10
You mean engaged into different lovers at a time,confrontation is not bad at all especially if you want to clarify something.You tell exactly how do you feel and let her decide what she/he is going to do to both of you I mean to her/his lovers. Make a way to show how much you get hurt with her/his unfaithfulness, you let him/her decide the best way to manage this situation to let go one of you. Happy lotting!
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
hi there oms_thetruth1990...if he is I would probably let him go even if it hurts coz it's one way that he is cheating on me especially if he didn't told me or he have a relationship with me while he is engaged with another person.