which is your option FRIEND OR LOVER ***********

It depends what everyone misses, unless they have a boyfriend or a husband or a wife, of course they will choose a boyfriend, he can be a real friend and lover, and husband, a friend may be just a friend, nothing more. If someone has a boyfriend, will of course choose to have a friend, but it would must and consider lover's best friend. I ll choice a lover, if he is Mister Right, it can be anything, and friend, and boyfriend, and husband and lover, any.

I think i will choose friend. there is a simple reason according to me.as if she or he really loves me she will not have any objection choosing my friend.but if she has she does not love. so why should i care for the person who even does not love me and leave my friend for her.

if i am asked this question years ago, when i have not found my current boyfriend, i would have chosen a friend over a lover. now that i have been through a lot, my friends all have their own lives, own lovers and own family - i shall say i will choose my partner over a friend. both of them have the chances of leaving me, there is no doubt about that. but i would take my chances on a person whom i know i can demand attention from, whom i can openly argue about anything so petty i feel like quareling about. hehe friends are sweet, but lovers are sweeter...

i think that if a friend, is a friend and if is it a lover, is just a lover, i dont like to mix the relationships, but i dont know what is going to be in the future, so i live the present.. have a nice day