Experience teaches to be successful!

Hi Victor... As a Zen practitioner I recognize the value of experience and getting on with the job. A Zen master may tell a student from time to time that he "thinks too much" when what is really important is that he gets on practising to focus his mind on all his tasks and experiences, no matter what they may be. As a therapist, I often get to deal with people who have lost all confidence in themselves and their abilities. Again, it does not work to talk them around unless they are committed to action. At first, if their anxiety is strong, they will take small steps to experience that sense of achievement. That may be something as simple as sweeping the yard or cleaning the car. But if they focus the mind and do it as perfectly as they are able to do it, they will surprise themselves and are then on the road to building more and more self-esteem and greater confidence. Here on myLot and other programs that are on-line, we have an opportunity of helping others develop their confidence in communication and getting involved, getting referrals and earning money. Although at first this can seem slow with small amounts. The cents slowly turn into dollars and there is a great satisfaction at watching this happen. Welcome to myLot. I hope you enjoy the site as much as I have over the years. I am still here after all! If you want any help with anything please do not hesitate to contact me or any other "old hand" on the site. Good luck.. _Derek