what should you do when your 9years lost contact friend turned to be....

Jordan
March 7, 2010 1:27pm CST
i have a friend,she's a girl.. for late 9 years i don't hear anything from her.but tonight,we meet in facebook and myspace..what turn me into dizzy,shock and surprise is,she become a man!i'm disappointed ..really. i love her and wish she'll be the girl i knew before.what should i do now? arrgghh...
5 responses
7 Mar 10
Do you know what I would do? I would accept her for what she is now. Inside she is still the same person from all those years ago. Just think how brave she is being, getting back in touch with you must have been a really difficult decision for your friend to make. I don't understand why you would be dissapointed, don't you want your friend to be happy?
• Jordan
7 Mar 10
of course i want her to be happy and enjoy her life..but her changed doesn't make me happy.why must she turn to be a tomboy?she's perfect enough!i just can't take her way...i try to be open-minded but not in this case..
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
8 Mar 10
why must she turn to be a tomboy? Being a tomboy and physically becoming a man are two completely different things...
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
Accept her. LOL. Honestly, your story is funny to me. I can't imagine one of my girl friends being a man. If I were in your situation, I'll accept her. If that's what she wants, and if she's happy, I'm happy for her too.
• Jordan
4 Apr 10
but it's illegal in all religions right??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 10
HM,if i like you i still love her, no matter she changed especially if she is changed her religion.
@sushie93 (1355)
• France
7 Mar 10
She become a man physically (with male physic) or mentally (just a tom boy)? Unfortunelly, people can change in a bad way, we can do nothing for that... u_u
• Romania
7 Mar 10
Really...you love her...but you haven't met for 9 years...how comes that?